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Guest inlimbo
We have been here 18 months now and really struggeling.

Will we go back to the UK.

mmmmmmm........Dont think so.

You see, for most working class in the UK we've been screwed. Now I'm not looking for a big debate in this. The fact remains if I was Still residing in the UK I would have lost every thing . To me it was adout survival,(it took us over 2 years to get here so we had an idea it was comming) now money does'nt buy you happiness but it does give you choices. Lukeskywalker sounds like a bright chap and lets say he is right about his economy speach.....for me there is no question where I'd rarther be. (even without his speach, you have to be blind to not see what is going on)

Just for the record I do miss home alot, but I also remember more strongly why I left.

Once again no one said it would be easy, in fact it is bloody hard but to most, you have come this far!.

Good luck to you all eitherway.

Sorry Keith I do not understand that bit? the vast majority of working clas people are still working...how would you have lost everything?

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Guest jackie Macdonald
where did you live in aus though, we lived in perth and returned to newcastle. we were in perth 5 years been here 3 cant wait to get back in october

 

 

I lived in Sydney the first time and Perth the second.

 

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hey ive got an idea what ur goin trough but try at least to stick it out 2 years and get da passport .i work construction and on some sites at smoko no one even says hello 2 me but ignorance is everywhere.i came over from ireland and i know what theyre is 2 go back 2 my missus workin partime hours always being changed but we got 2 small kids that cheer us up.go on hang in there.

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No worries!

 

I met up with a mate at Kenilworth in April - it is one of my favourite castles although I dont like what they have done with the knot garden I'm afraid. My friend lives in Stourbridge and would you believe she had never been there! I know she has been to Stratford because we had a day there together the last time I was over! Her favourite is Witley Court and I went there last time too - that was impressive.

 

However the best thing in that area was going to see Shakespeare performed at Ludlow Castle - have you tried that? Absolutely brilliant!

 

I'm getting nostalgic just thinking of it all!

 

Quoll, just driving around Worcs, warks, herefordshire with work keeps me happy.

I get off the motorway, and go the back roads.........great.

I tell how understated the poms are ..........Did you know where Tolkien got his inspiration for " lord of the rings"?( LOOK IT UP ON GOOGLE )

In all the areas ,especially "moseley bog "in moseley birmingham,whilst living there, in wake green rd.

I know the exact house where he lived........and how many signs or pointers are there?, none ,zero,zilch...........imagine if that was the U.S or OZ !

ps i was at kenilworth castle for the St Georges day celebrations.

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hey ive got an idea what ur goin trough but try at least to stick it out 2 years and get da passport .i work construction and on some sites at smoko no one even says hello 2 me but ignorance is everywhere.i came over from ireland and i know what theyre is 2 go back 2 my missus workin partime hours always being changed but we got 2 small kids that cheer us up.go on hang in there.

 

Actually for new comers it is now 4 years to get a passport so that is quite a huge chunk out of anyone's life especially if they have kids who may be heading for high school.

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Guest keith lancaster

I think you will find that to get your australian citizenship is now more than 2 years from 2007 ,not sure on the exact date. but it is now a lot longer , look it up.

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All of you Poms.. I know that there is no place like home. I moved from Melbourne to Queensland 4 years ago, but our adult kids are stiil there.It takes a long time to get used to a new home if everthing else is not in order.I have never been to the UK, but my mum is from there and I think she would have preferred to have not come here..

She has never liked thes summer heat and the dry cold of winter. (no rain just wind and cloud)

Some people think that a big move will fix things, but if your heart is in the UK, it will always be home to you..:wubclub:

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All of you Poms.. I know that there is no place like home. I moved from Melbourne to Queensland 4 years ago, but our adult kids are stiil there.It takes a long time to get used to a new home if everthing else is not in order.I have never been to the UK, but my mum is from there and I think she would have preferred to have not come here..

She has never liked thes summer heat and the dry cold of winter. (no rain just wind and cloud)

Some people think that a big move will fix things, but if your heart is in the UK, it will always be home to you..:wubclub:

 

Well said mate. A lot of Aussies arrive here on this dingy little island of 60 million people ,and say " whats all the fuss about "weathers crap,beaches are crap, the place is s.ithouse "other Aussies arrive and love it .

It doesnt help when the UK govt is doing its best to destroy the place.

They have allowed god knows how many people to remain here since 1997,and now,lo and behold,we cant afford to keep them.

BRILLIANT LONG TERM PLANNING !- BYE BYE LABOUR !

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Well said mate. A lot of Aussies arrive here on this dingy little island of 60 million people ,and say " whats all the fuss about "weathers crap,beaches are crap, the place is s.ithouse "other Aussies arrive and love it .

It doesnt help when the UK govt is doing its best to destroy the place.

They have allowed god knows how many people to remain here since 1997,and now,lo and behold,we cant afford to keep them.

BRILLIANT LONG TERM PLANNING !- BYE BYE LABOUR !

 

Sadly although we can say BYE BYE LABOUR, they several millions they have allowed in here will be left here, and we'll still have to pay for them. This could be the best country in the world if we woudl take some tough decisions. As a nation we would be unpopular for while, but so what?

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Sadly although we can say BYE BYE LABOUR, they several millions they have allowed in here will be left here, and we'll still have to pay for them. This could be the best country in the world if we woudl take some tough decisions. As a nation we would be unpopular for while, but so what?

 

1/ get out of the e.u ( permanent or temporary until this mess is sorted)

2/ get out of Afghanistan , and put the troops on the ports and and airports ( both ends)

3/ death penalty for all drug dealers,rapists , murderers etc - that bastard who slashed that girl to death in the north west. He was sentenced to 24 yrs yesterday , waste of time - death penalty - the coward stabbed her 9 times ( if similar injuries had been inflicted by a dog, it would be put down)

4/ deport all those that shouldnt be here ( use the army to disrupt the movements of all those that shouldnt be here , and ship them out )

5/ if you dont work you dont get ,and that includes " white trash" ,having children to get a house.

 

Too simplistic .......is it really

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1/ get out of the e.u ( permanent or temporary until this mess is sorted)

2/ get out of Afghanistan , and put the troops on the ports and and airports ( both ends)

3/ death penalty for all drug dealers,rapists , murderers etc - that bastard who slashed that girl to death in the north west. He was sentenced to 24 yrs yesterday , waste of time - death penalty - the coward stabbed her 9 times ( if similar injuries had been inflicted by a dog, it would be put down)

4/ deport all those that shouldnt be here ( use the army to disrupt the movements of all those that shouldnt be here , and ship them out )

5/ if you dont work you dont get ,and that includes " white trash" ,having children to get a house.

 

Too simplistic .......is it really

 

Not for me. I think you are spot on.

 

Like I say we'd be unpopular in the "enlightended" world. So what? Its time for radical action.

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Not for me. I think you are spot on.

 

Like I say we'd be unpopular in the "enlightended" world. So what? Its time for radical action.

 

 

You do realise you you can't buy the Daily Mail in australia?!

 

Maybe you should move to one of those compounds in the Rockies with the patriots??

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You do realise you you can't buy the Daily Mail in australia?!

 

Maybe you should move to one of those compounds in the Rockies with the patriots??

 

Ah! The "Daily Mail" argument and the Rockies argument in one go. Clever - I never expected that one. :no:

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Ah! The "Daily Mail" argument and the Rockies argument in one go. Clever - I never expected that one. :no:

 

The aussies should be sat on the sidelines,watching successive Pommie governments make critical mistakes concerning immigration.........but no,theyve decided to go down the same road.

Its a slightly different argument,because if you are white and Australian,some would argue that it isnt your country anyway.............NOW THERES A THREAD!

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Luke Skywalker.. Any particular reason you picked Melbourne ? I lived there for nearly 50 years, but now prefer S E Queensland. Mebourne is getting greedy. There are speed and red light cameras everywhere and if you are doing 64kmh in a 60 kmh zone expect a $120.00 fine. Speedometers are in 5kmh intervals for gods sake.. Stamp duty payable on a $400,000 home in Melbourne is $20,000. same house (will be a better house for $400,000 here) Stamp duty $7,500

Melbourne is as cold as England in the winter and as hot and dry as the Sahara in summer. SEQ has 21-25 deg most days in winter and around 30 in summer with a bit of humidity...

Melbourne has a lot more mixed races (which can be a good thing for dining etc). If you like fishing and boating you must pay for an annual boat licence (if you have a boat),and a launching fee at most ramps of about $10.00 and a fishing licence to fish in Port phillip bay or any freash or salt water area of water including the ocean. Here.. none of that (so far) .. But Nanna might just smell some easy money and change all that.

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Guest VFRHOCKS

Hope you find happiness soon.

 

I agree with others, try moving as I have heard Rockingham is not nice.

If we wasn't so far away, we live in Mindarie, north of Joondalup, I suggest meeting up.

 

I love it her and enjoy my job but my OH has had the same feelings.

Everyone says it takes at least a year to settle in, longer if you are in a bad area.

 

We love NOR as it is that bit warmer and we are right near the coast, walkin distance in fact.

 

Chin up and hope things improve soon for you.

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Guest Andrewkafp

Move to Caloundra .. Sunshine coast South East Queensland. It is the most beautiful place to live. Being part of the sunshine coast, it has lots of employment opportunities for tradesmen and retail type jobs. It has the Pumicestone passage, the Pacific ocean, and is just heaven. I never wore a long sleeve shirt whilst living there (or long pants) as it is ALWAYS warm and sunny. Lived there for a few years, but the drive to my specialist job in Brissy (100km ) was jst too much. There are quite a few poms there.. They will be the ones who are out swimming at Kings beach in June and saying.. "This water aint cold.. You Aussies are whimps..."

 

http://caloundracity.com.au/

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Guest leftfield
Ah! The "Daily Mail" argument and the Rockies argument in one go. Clever - I never expected that one. :no:

 

 

So you realised you fit the stereotypical paranoid right wing Daily Mail reading reactionary profile then?

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my wife and i have being here 5 months now we are thinking of going home .we live in rockingham she is a nurse am a paint sprayer took me three months to find work we miss home and dont know if we like it here and ever will, everone says they move for the lifestyle what lifestyle , get home and do nothing maybe coz its winter i dont know i cant speak for everone but i dont find australia people freindly i think there rude bellive me am trying they ,where strugling to make freinds wife shifts are crap ,hey i might be a big straping scotsman but am almost crying writing this knowing what i gave up to come here .anyone thinking the same or anyone at home who went back

 

 

gary

 

 

Yes, I know exactly what you mean...:sad:

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Guest angelaandmick

4 years!! Well we'll have to hold on and do what we can to make this work. It's not all bad over here it's just that work is a big part of our lives and would be great if it was going well.

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my wife and i have being here 5 months now we are thinking of going home .we live in rockingham she is a nurse am a paint sprayer took me three months to find work we miss home and dont know if we like it here and ever will, everone says they move for the lifestyle what lifestyle , get home and do nothing maybe coz its winter i dont know i cant speak for everone but i dont find australia people freindly i think there rude bellive me am trying they ,where strugling to make freinds wife shifts are crap ,hey i might be a big straping scotsman but am almost crying writing this knowing what i gave up to come here .anyone thinking the same or anyone at home who went back

 

 

gary

chill out the season is nearly here, i am a chelsea fan.

sorry m8 i have been back 3 times and thought it was greener.

it isnt, but there r a lot of things piss me off, but hay injoy the positive things.

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my wife and i have being here 5 months now we are thinking of going home .we live in rockingham she is a nurse am a paint sprayer took me three months to find work we miss home and dont know if we like it here and ever will, everone says they move for the lifestyle what lifestyle , get home and do nothing maybe coz its winter i dont know i cant speak for everone but i dont find australia people freindly i think there rude bellive me am trying they ,where strugling to make freinds wife shifts are crap ,hey i might be a big straping scotsman but am almost crying writing this knowing what i gave up to come here .anyone thinking the same or anyone at home who went back

 

 

gary

 

 

Gary :hug:

 

Don't give up mate. I had to hold the tears back reading your blog.

 

Things are REALLY hard the first couple of years. Try to put things into perspective and make a list of why you left things at home in the first place to come here. Was it to make a better life? If so, why? People come here for different reasons so we all have different advice to give each other which, although is meant well, can confuse us even more. Only you and your family can REALLY feel what is right for you.

 

I really wish you all the best mate

 

Ely :hug:

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