I'm saddened your saddened come on cheer up, it takes a strong person to admit they have failed at something, others just turn to internet forums and become bitter!!
I think you must have me mixed up with another poster I have no dislike for my country of birth it gave me 30 odd great years I'm proud to be English, I just call BS when I see it, if someone says they are wearing shorts into November and even December I call BS, if someone says they have moved from Logan Central to a 400 year old house in a quaint village where everyone is so much friendlier than anywhere they have ever been in Australia I call BS, If someone says they are living in utopia in a signature I call BS, If someone tries to tell me garbage about the UK weather which I spent plenty of time living through I call BS. If someone complains they hated the heat but as soon as a blue sky appears.............I could go on but I think you get it.
Similarly if someone tries to write on here Perth/Brisbane/Sydney is utopia I call BS, cleared things up a little I hope