.........I guess when you have experienced other countries.....
.........there is so much more to choose from....to consider with family in both....
.........it's down to needs and wants.....
.........for all of you.....
.........and in family's,sometimes.......someone has to agree to having less met....
.........but I would say the happiness of the family as a whole is the most important thing.....
..........and I wish you luck........a little conversation ,a bit of give and take.....( perhaps as has been said with a councillor)
..........and hopefully a solution that pleases everyone.....