Hi Lainey, It looks like we've both similarly thrown ourselves in the deep end at points in our lives and I think you're right- fate probably has placed me where I want to be! Btw looking at earlier posts I'm sorry you've had such a rough ride over the past few years but I really admire your positive outlook in the face of that and I wish you all the best. Personally I really like the UK- we lived in Cardiff which is a great place to bring up a family, but an opportunity arose that if we didn't take, we would be thinking 'what if' for the rest of our lives. We were both in our 40's so was unlikely a similar opportunity would have arisen again. It took only 3 months from meeting our future employer to selling our house, shipping our stuff, to being out here on a 457. All the pitfalls mentioned constantly on this forum about taking this particular route happened to us- first redundancy, and then another employer changing their policy regarding 186 ENS sponsorship- but fortunately it all worked out in the end! A rare occasion where my own naivity and recklessness actually paid off!