Hi FeralBeryl, what a funny username LOVE IT. scene! Well! I'm a mid40's singleton, nothing to tie me to UK apart from a handful of very good friends [no family really] & a comfort zone due to my job. I have a degree in engineering and now a qual. Accountant working as a Financial Controller in industry. I enjoy [no change that! I appreciate rather than enjoy] my job [people, environment, commute, pays well, in my comfort zone which counters the stressful, busy days]. The other thing to tie me to the UK is "my comfort zone", ie financially secure, done want for much, sneek off to the gym at lunchtimes, chill at home watching movies, game of thrones, surf the web, faff-around....chill-lax'ing after a stressful day. On the odd days we get a nice HOT weekend i like to just chill in the garden, music in da'ears. When on holiday i like to Scubadive, and recently tried surfing & really want to get into Kite-Surfing.....where i live in Essex, UK its apparently one of the best places in Europe for beginners! who'd have thought!!!
So in theory Sunshine Coast, Brisbane [both appeal] could provide me with the same/BETTER Scene/lifestyle. so what it boils down to is
STAY UK [RELAX] versus GO Oz [ADVENTURE, OPPORTUNITY] ?
Oz represents for Me, 2 suitcases, no accommodation, no job, no transport, no phone/webaccess, no friends/support versus UK=Safe. And yes even in Oz Mon-Fri needs to be the mundane/ratrace, we all have to work, especially given the expensive nature of Oz, however its what you choose to do at weekends, which Oz you can do 52weeks a yr.... lazy on the beach, kitesurf, paramotor, explore. some of which i would do...but still like my movies n gym n chill.
workwise, i'd look to get a Temp job; ideally parttime, as money isn't the DRIVER...then once i feel settled [if ever] then think what i want as a full time thing. Also Oz is an OPPORTUNITY to do something different workwise [perhaps selling Sage X3 !], but i guess depends on Cost of Living and eventually what kinda place to live in [looking to rent out house in in UK longterm]
and it has been COLD here Brrrrrr Does that give ya an idea of me/my scene? I try to look at jobs in Oz but alot dont advertise salary, stressing me out making a decision; though if its that 50:50, do i really want it!!!
there's is an update! work dont want me to go! "Its not until someone leaves that you realise how much you value them, so my boss said" but they needed a decision as i told them i want to to finish work end of Feb18 [sort of handed in my Notice]. Anyway last week I told them I'm staying UK. they were very pleased & MD/CEO/FD said i made the right choice! Oddily ending with a chat with the CEO to reinforce I'd made the right decision with him trying to sell me a car LOL long story
BUT after making the decision, am i relieved?? NO i feel like it was the wrong choice.....hence still the wrangle inside of me.