Shellybingobingo

You don't judge people circumstances unless you've walked a mile in their shoes ! He may be a FIFO worker he may be depressed, before people start reading the riot act or saying tuff love ! Think a bit more ! He probably could afford or can afford that car at the time ! but hey ho he asked for advice ! ! I'll just let the wolves descend considering they've been on this site along time ! Have a good evening!

Well ill I don't see any practical advice just shooting someone down ! I think it's rude jockin tas !

do you see what I mean about people on here .... Tough love ! Whatever !

I I understand that Ali ! But in his post it reads he 100percent regrets it and it's all his own doing ! Don't think he needs hear that's more than some earn because what has that got do with anyone else ! Also he doesn't want to hear he needs to become more financially literate ! Bit late for spilt milk ! I'd say

Dont not think that's going help him do you ? Financially literate wtf ! Bank managers psychologists grammar police I've heard it all ! My my best advice to the op don't come on here for advice they just shoot u down ! And say how irresponsible Uve been or move back or u say ya missing home all of a sudden this was the wrong move u won't be happy anywhere ! ! follow your heart ! just needs the riot act reading to him now ! He will sleep wonderfully tonight !

It's here ! ! People turn in to psychologists on here I think ! Or they think they know it all ! Nothing to do with what I'm like as a person but when I hear people bang on about u must not be a friendly person I think people need look in the sodied mirror !

I've decided people just get on my tits full stop . Think ill ill update in twelve month when I've decided what I'm doing .

Ya carny get on if there's not much work around anyway ! people don't come here just to say I know I'll have a whinge today ! These people r old people no doubt probably retired saying how comfortable they r in oz also them that come a while ago hit the boom not the case now ! not so easy ! ! I wonder how many would tell people what they want to hear if they were worried about jobs or didn't have one ! It would be boot on the other foot !

Yes I know u were ! Not being awkward or nothing with u lol I just carny explain without it sounding wrong lol

Yes I know I carny explain so no point me trying it will come out wrong if I tried lol

That wasn't aimed at u niether I must of been typing as u posted ! So my apologies qss

And of course I miss my family son grandson friends that goes without saying

Well I wanted nice weather for starters ! Niaeve I may of been but hey we all human ! And also jobs yes research we did on the job front ! ! It's that things to a down turn as we arrived ! my oh has the skills they need here that is not my issue my issue is how it's been ! So when u spent thousands of dollars pig arsing around for a job when I know it was good in UK I'm thinking what the hell have I done wouldn't anybody ! He's earned a lot of money but we've not seen it for the cost of moving around just for a job ! ! Even the ozzies know if FEED isn't busy then it's going create a knock on effect ! My oh can work in Australia at skill level one has all the desired skills ! So what research didn't we do what is the problem tell me because I'm gob smacked this has happened ! You work so hard in UK get where u wanna be fancy a change nothing wrong with that ! And it's **** from the minute u arrive basically ! Although coming through it now but 3 sodding yrs of ploughing money in it to make it work ! I'm not the bank of pigging England

My hubby commuted a hr and half each way in UK ! He wouldn't get work on his doorstep ! Here now roll out of bed there in 6 minutes lol that's better for him !

Oh and when my kids were little I shopped at cocking netto ! And I had one meal a day ! off to have my hair done now toodle pip !

and they deserve to ! Let's put it like this I would rather be listening to my iPod pushing trolleys than operating on someone's brain ! And nd before someone says yours needs operating on I've heard it all before lol and nd do u think I liked my husband working till ten at nigh and weekends too and me doing the night shift in a petrol station then staying up all day to look after my kids ! I created my own reality why do u think my husband studied until 3 in a morning and up at six for work for the fun of it ! Nope for a better future ! Why do parents want their kids do well at school to have a better standard of a future ! If u choose a future which is government funded no point complaining about the **** pay although I agree it's **** because you chose it ! Life is about choices but understanding the consequences that might go with it ! U create ya own reality ! And before anyone says its not the case for some kids well my husband walked around with holes in his shoes I had my clothes from jumble sales our parents were skint and we were both bought up on a council estate ! My husband had nothing given to him nothing and doesn't want nothing ! But I still know why he did what he did to give his family a better future !

i understand what ya saying Paul I really do , but why bother get qualified if that's the case ! For a better future why bother !

But why are people only be able to earn minimum wage , people who go get qualified for a job of their choice have put the hard yards in to Beable to have better working hours and pay like jacaranda said u r a creator of ya own reality ! Why should higher earners pay 45percent tax over 180k when they worked to get that job in the first place ! a brain surgeon will have a lot more worry about than a tesco trolley pusher ! Do u get me

You can sign a form in the UK to say u don't want work over 46 hrs . So he must of needed the money to be doing 80 hrs a week ! ! When my kids were little my husband worked until ten o'clock at night , then I would go do a night shift when he can in then Saturday and Sunday he would work 7am until 12pm and he studied at same time , we never took a penny from the government ever ! Then when he was qualified he earned great money ! Then things dramatically changed for us ! ! Then u get people saying higher earners should pay more tax ! Why should they pay any more than me ! I was a creator of my own reality by not doing what I supposed to of done when younger lol ! Why should let's say a brain surgeon pay more tax than someone who pushes trolleys for tesco ! !

Haha it's probably me not her mistaken ! Your most welcome

They taught me me how do a leaf lol , bit boring though hey ! ! I did go for a couple of interviews , one got the job due to more experience but she said she would ring me when they get busier in the summer , but I'm fine now I'm sorted ! And they like young ones unless you are a super experienced barista because of pay , you could try house keeping at the hotels and casino . And you could always clean , I worked for a real estate aswell my first year in here , they saw my vacate clean for a lady I did and they asked her who did ya vacate clean for you and I got jobs from them , only thing is with that you have to wait until they release the bond until you get paid , you do get it though . And plenty of homes to drop leaflets out too ! But that's car pending for you ! Think you'll be fine though

I I did me coffe art course Stacey and my barista course ! I loved it . I didn't do this but pretty cool anyway lol[ATTACH=CONFIG]31257[/ATTACH]

sorry chicken 66 , I was in one last night after phoning back UK , and I think I was just in one , I get a bit worried to and probably got the wrong end of the stick sorry

But contact some one else what do I know ! Thick as **** no doubt