Hello Everyone!
This is my first ever post so I hope I'm doing this right! I simply just wish to share my story and receive advice. I've been debating signing up on here for months!
I really want to return to the UK now after 4 (and a bit) years, I understand living here is better financially and creates a great future, but my heart is over-ruling all of that
This is how it began....
I moved out from the UK in September 2008 with my parents, at the age of 17, after completing my GCSE's. I never really thought the day would come round to actually moving to Australia, I just thought it was one of those things that gets mentioned but eventually sweeps itself under the carpet. After setting foot in our rental house for the first time, the shock hit me! I cried for days like a big softy! I eventually enrolled into a local high school and returned into year 11 to complete the Aussie school year. I decided I did not want to continue into year 12 (probably a bad decision at the time, but hey I was young and my mind was all over the place), so I enrolled in a TAFE course to study IT Networking Cert III. This soon passed and I came to the conclusion that IT wasn't really for me, so I helped my friends parents out with their camper trailer franchise.
Then in 2010, one of his friends took me on as an apprentice cabinet maker (or as we poms know it, a carpenter). This lasted a whole year before the boss telling me that he was struggling to get work and I could take the following week off and to wait for his call on the Wednesday. That call, however, never came and he left me in the dark with the job. So I sat around for a bit wondering what to do, went on an annual trip back to the UK to see my family and friends, then came back to Perth to start Cert IV in IT Networking. I figured I should give it a second chance as I may like it! But I was wrong, I was completely put off IT even more! So I went on my annual journey in July 2012 back to Leeds. We stayed a bit longer this time, as it was my 21st and I wanted a party in the UK to share with my family and friends. I had a great time, even met some amazing new people through some DJ gigs I did with an old mate. But even more, I met a special someone and fell in love. Then I had to leave for Perth again, so with me and my partner heartbroken, I departed.
October 2012 and I got a job doing door to door sales for Foxtel. Absolutely hate it! About to hand my notice in next week! And then I get a message from my partner saying that the long distance thing is too hard and for us just to be friends. All of this seems to have mounted on top of one another and I'm about to burst!! I'm applying for citizenship next month so I'm hoping to grab that before making any huge decisions.
I've just never really 'clicked' with Australia. I'm not moaning saying it's a horrible country, because it's not, it's a great country, I just feel that it's not for me. So now I want to get another job, save like mad, and hopefully return to the UK in July/August this year. Who knows, maybe I can even rebuild the bridges to my relationship. For the past 4 years, I've not been the happiest person, and although I'm only 21, I feel like I'm wasting my life away and want to be around the people I love and care about the most. The saying you never realise what you have until it's gone comes to mind. On the plus side, at least I've found a way to watch a Sky+ subscription!
I apologise for the huge essay, I just finally needed to get my experience off my chest. If anybody has any advice as to what I should do, please comment back. Please be nice though! :biggrin: