We came out 36 years ago, without having visited, and did not "move on". There were 7 families on our flight, all emigrating, and only one family returned to the UK, and that was after about 6 weeks. All the rest are still here. If you have figures showing that most people move on, I would like to see them. If you want to see it as being impersonal, of course you will. If you like many others want to immerse yourself in its culture, its beauty, its vibrancy, its friendliness, you will see a far from impersonal city. Sure it is huge for its population, but it is a city with space, that did not grow upwards, but outwards, and though the traffic system leaves a lot to be desired, I would rather work with what there is here, than face of terrifying commutes on roads in the U.K.