antandjack Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 We've been back a week now so i'll start at the beginning............................... We moved to Melbourne mid October we had a hard time to begin with, we struggled with our money getting lost and finding a rental etc. Although we would have come home at four weeks due to being homesick but that is a normal feeling to have. We started to settle down a bit was looking forward to 2010 and what we could do, we decided we were putting to much pressure on ourselves by looking at it as a life move so we were going to take it a year at a time, the kids were loving it so that helped. But then I found a lump in my breast so went to the doctor and within a week i was diagonised with cancer it was such a huge blow to us all, I was informed that i needed a masestomey the rest of the information was a blur. The hospital care was amazing but we knew with the op and then chemo that we needed to be where we had a support from friends and family so we decided to come back. We arrived back last week. It was a shock feeling the cold and having snow but it does feel like christmas, it was lovely seeing our family and friends. It was great to go back to Tesco's for all the traditional christmas bits........how sad!!!!!! I know i've got a real fight next year and our dream of a new life has not worked out as planned but thats life........nothing is gauranteed. So i'd like to say a big thanks to everyone we met in Oz, we were very blessed with the people we met and we miss you lots. Merry Christmas everyone and have a good 2010 Jackie and Family x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jackboots Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 All the best with your health and future happiness , good luck ! and merry christmas and a happy new years x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sykestykes Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 Oh Jackie, what a terrible shock - life really does throw some curve balls at you when you least expect it, doesn't it? I hope you are able to enjoy a wonderful Christmas with your family and take that strong spirit that you obviously have into the coming year to deal with what's ahead. Take care and keep us updated.:wubclub: Sue xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest stockies Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 Sorry to hear of your news, but you sound like you have the right attitude to fight this. It must be a great comfort to have your family and friends around you at this very difficult time. Good luck and I wish you a healthy and happy New year. Claire. xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stellathedog Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 You sound very positive about the future and that is the way to be, a positive attitude can work wonders! I just want to wish you all the best Christmas and a very happy New Year, this time next year you may be back in the sunshine Pam xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest31881 Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 Hi Jackie, Sorry to hear your news. I am plesaed you will have the support of your family during this time, and I look forward to you posting on here when you have won your personal fight. keep you positive attitude, your a winner, and stop boasting about a white Christmas or you may find we all turn up on your doorstep.:snowman7: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bakedalaska Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 Jackie Be strong, you have your family around you now. All the best. Have a lovely Christmas in the snowy UK. Caroline xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest siamsusie Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 We've been back a week now so i'll start at the beginning............................... We moved to Melbourne mid October we had a hard time to begin with, we struggled with our money getting lost and finding a rental etc. But then I found a lump in my breast so went to the doctor and within a week i was diagonised with cancer it was such a huge blow to us all, I was informed that i needed a masestomey the rest of the information was a blur. The hospital care was amazing but we knew with the op and then chemo that we needed to be where we had a support from friends and family so we decided to come back. We arrived back last week. It was a shock feeling the cold and having snow but it does feel like christmas, it was lovely seeing our family and friends. It was great to go back to Tesco's for all the traditional christmas bits........how sad!!!!!! I know i've got a real fight next year and our dream of a new life has not worked out as planned but thats life........nothing is gauranteed. Jackie and Family x Being back with family and friends is the best place Jackie, You sound a positive brave lady, and I wish you so much strength in your fight. No its not sad being back at shopping at Tescos at all, at times like this you need the "familiar" around you. Please do keep us posted as to how you are going, and I salute your strength of character:notworthy: Very best wishes Jackie & family:hug: Susie xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LojaChica Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 Bless your heart for being able to post this at such a difficult time................One BRAVE Lady x You are in my thoughts Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest navigatoru Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 what a shock Jakie. after your dreams came true you have to come back in the UK. i hope that your health will be better in the near future so, you can go to continue your life in Oz. good luck and happy christmas. :notworthy: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest proud2beaussie Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 There is really not very much I can say at a time like this except for good luck,all of us here on PIO will be thinking of you and hoping that the treatment is a success. It's good that you have family and friends near you when you need them the most. I certainly wish you a Merry Christmas and a happy,and more important ,healthy 2010. Take care of yourself,and remember PIO is open 24 hours a day,we are here if you need us. God Bless. Nigel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cazbeckham Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 Jackie You are one brave lady and I wish you all the luck for your health and happiness. Sorry it didn;t work out for you here in Australia but now you are in a familier place with friends and family I hope that you will now be able to carry on with your life with your loved ones All the best to you and your family and as Nigel says - we are all here for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest The Pom Queen Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 Hi Honey Glad to see you back on PIO and posting. Good luck tomorrow and let's hope those angels are looking over you. Just off to reply to your email. Love to Tony and the kids. Big BIG BIG Hugs Love Kate Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gary12 Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 You made the right choice to be back with your family, that is who you need at times like this. Someone familiar to laugh, cry and be downright P****d off with. Australia will wait, in the meantime I wish you all the very best in the fight against this illness. kindest regards Michelle Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quoll Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 Jackie, will have my fingers crossed that all goes well for you and that you get the very best treatment and support. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Andy Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 Good luck with the treatment, i am sure with all todays fantastic cancer specialists and great treatment you will soon be fighting fit!:wubclub::hug: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest sh7t man no way Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 good luck to you guys,from reading your thread it seems lady luck has not been on your side,but what i got from the thread was the feeling that you,s are all wonderfull peaple,you guys will get through this,and return to your lives after some troubled times,i wish you all the love in the world,take care :hug:from alan-- happy xmas Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest caza75 Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 hi jackie, i am so sorry to hear your news but with your strength an positivity i pray all will be well and your treatment successful, stay strong an the angels will be there for you. you are in my thoughts an prayers:hug::hug: caroline xxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest juliemtaylor Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 Jackie hopefully your family will be a great strength for you and your treatment will be swift. My best friend has had 3 ops this year for Breast Cancer and is half way through chemo. Next year when she has got over this she is having reconstruction surgery, and her outlook is very good. Best wishes and good luck with it all. Julie xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Bettyboop Posted December 21, 2009 Share Posted December 21, 2009 Just wanted to wish you good luck with your treatment, you did the right thing in returning to be around your family and friends and like someone else mentioned your dreams can still be returned to in the future if you so wish. Here's to a happy and healthy New Year for you. xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
antandjack Posted December 21, 2009 Author Share Posted December 21, 2009 Thank you so much everyone :cute: PIO is a great help, had a appointment at the Royal Marsden today and it went as well as you'd expect. But we are always trying to keep laughing and smiling which is a great stress relief :biglaugh: Lots of love to you all and thanks again xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OZwanted Posted December 21, 2009 Share Posted December 21, 2009 Jackie and family, So sorry to hear your sad news, but I am sure with the fighting spirit you have shown so far you will get through this. I wish you all the best for 2010 in your quest to get better. Take care, lots of hugs :hug::hug:Heidi xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Magnetic6 Posted December 21, 2009 Share Posted December 21, 2009 Hi Jackie I just want to add all my best wishes for your health and treatment. Good luck with everything and i'm so pleased to hear you've got the support of your family around you. Massive:hug:!! Natalie x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest12791 Posted December 22, 2009 Share Posted December 22, 2009 Bless you huny, take care and enjoy the love from your family, all the best for 2010, annemarie x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest MSTO Posted December 22, 2009 Share Posted December 22, 2009 We've been back a week now so i'll start at the beginning............................... We moved to Melbourne mid October we had a hard time to begin with, we struggled with our money getting lost and finding a rental etc. Although we would have come home at four weeks due to being homesick but that is a normal feeling to have. We started to settle down a bit was looking forward to 2010 and what we could do, we decided we were putting to much pressure on ourselves by looking at it as a life move so we were going to take it a year at a time, the kids were loving it so that helped. But then I found a lump in my breast so went to the doctor and within a week i was diagonised with cancer it was such a huge blow to us all, I was informed that i needed a masestomey the rest of the information was a blur. The hospital care was amazing but we knew with the op and then chemo that we needed to be where we had a support from friends and family so we decided to come back. We arrived back last week. It was a shock feeling the cold and having snow but it does feel like christmas, it was lovely seeing our family and friends. It was great to go back to Tesco's for all the traditional christmas bits........how sad!!!!!! I know i've got a real fight next year and our dream of a new life has not worked out as planned but thats life........nothing is gauranteed. So i'd like to say a big thanks to everyone we met in Oz, we were very blessed with the people we met and we miss you lots. Merry Christmas everyone and have a good 2010 Good Luck Jackie..my thoughts are with you and your family.....take care hun xxxx:hug: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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