I'm so sorry for you , I was not aware of this. How unfair. I have been in Oz now 18 months and plan to leave in July with my daughter. I came because of my husbands job, but hate it here. My husband loves it weve been married 20 years in the UK but had the problem of me not settling here. I often wish i never set foot on the plane. My husband is returning back 3 months after me Due to my son finishing his HSC exams. I hope !!, Your story is something that needs to be addressed!! Yes, they make it sound all brilliant on those stupid TV show Down Under they need to tell people the downside of life here. I hope you do get back one day with your son once he is 16 he might change his mind. Stay Strong