Hey Acidglitter, welcome to the forum. I think it's quite useful to read this stuff as long as you can keep it in perspective as just someone's opinion. People are unhappy here for a huge range of reasons (not all to do with the lack of unicorns) and I think unrealistic expectations plays a part. It this forum helps you come here with a balanced view then it's served a purpose. I've been happy in both countries and I hope you will be too.