VERYSTORMY Posted April 21, 2014 Share Posted April 21, 2014 Sustain has a good idea there. I do this when i am away with work for long periods - a couple of months at a time. I have a spread sheet and tick the days off and put on things like the last laundry day, the day i will clip my nails before i go home, all sorts of daft things. But when i tick one off it feels a lot better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roxy2005 Posted April 23, 2014 Share Posted April 23, 2014 I know just how you are feeling just wanted to say that you're not alone, and in your heart you know what you need to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Helz980 Posted April 23, 2014 Author Share Posted April 23, 2014 I've gone through the calendar & put down all Olivia's activities, when people are coming, potential days out to places, when I need to give notice for her daycare so the calendar isn't bare anymore (even though I know she goes to playgroup on a Tuesday it's good to see the day filled up) & now when I look the time doesn't look as far away. Havebt had that chat with hubby though as he came back from night shift & was just home for less than 2 days. He's got a long weekend though so I will talk then, bit scared tbh hughes why's up? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Helz980 Posted June 9, 2014 Author Share Posted June 9, 2014 Wow! I haven't posted in a while! So then what's been happening?! Well I started seeing a counsellor & honestly it was the best thing I've ever done. It was very hard to begin with as it was difficult to process but at my penultimate session I walked in head held high, smiling & looking & feeling like me. I will admit that I was depressed but now am stronger. I can talk to hubby & I know that when I need to make a decision I will make it with a clear head & a light heart. I've found a great friend in a girl whose not long been here, we've been out on the razz in Sydney & have fun together with her little boy & my little girl! I've also started my own business venture & the beauty of it is I can do it from the UK as well Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Helz980 Posted June 9, 2014 Author Share Posted June 9, 2014 Hadn't finished!! .....I started my business venture so that I've got something for me & Olivia in case me & Paul split up. Which was looking the case but now we are talking about my wish to go home & listening to each other. The main thing is I'm not scared anymore! I just want to say thanks for the support, this group was my haven during the dark times, but now I can see the sun shining xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quoll Posted June 9, 2014 Share Posted June 9, 2014 Good on you! Some counsellors are worth their weight in gold and it looks like you got a fantastic one to empower you to be your own woman once more! The only way is definitely upwards from here! We're all proud of your achievement too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aunt Agatha Posted June 10, 2014 Share Posted June 10, 2014 Great update! Glad to hear you're feeling more positive and clear-headed. Well done on getting a business off the ground too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emmab1995 Posted June 11, 2014 Share Posted June 11, 2014 good for you :wink: so glad to hear that things are coming together for you .... so what is the business venture that you are doing ??? xxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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