Hi Fiona and Kate,
I'm in the middle of the application process too - I applied for a 309 visa end April, was assigned a CO end June, have submitted medicals and police checks and am now waiting.
I have been told that there is currently a minimum processing time of 6 months for this visa.
This does seem to tally with grant times of people on this site - most are granted around 6/7 months.
There are some that are granted at 3/4 months, all of them I have seen have been people who have been married for around 10 years and have kids - so not sure if they give special dispensation for that.
Check out this thread to see other people's processing times, I found it really useful.
http://www.pomsinoz.com/forum/migration-issues/58449-summary-spouse-visa-processing-times-offshore-uk-please-add-your-stats-1396.html
I too am finding the wait agonising and am checking my emails every day hoping for an early grant miracle!
Good luck to you both!!
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