searchjane001 Posted March 10, 2014 Share Posted March 10, 2014 If someone still remenber,that I have posted a thread 2 days ago ,asking sugguestion,that the Rheumatic disease(MCTD) will affect the 300 or 309 visa?And thanks for kind friends' help. But....That isn't not the major problem now...Alas... My boyfriend is an Australian,and I am from China,we have been together 18 months,and have seen each other for almost 10 times,and also met the family from each other, and ..."are"going to get marry this April. The sad news,we got the message from some immigration people,that because his 2 marriges and my disease,it's impossible for me to immigrate to Australia even we get marry..Yes, he married twice,and..both EXs are from foreign coutries,one is Russian,and one from Thai.He cannot garantee 3nd wife to go to Australia........when we first met, I don't mind too much his 2 marriges,because he is really good man, his 2 failure in marriges not all his problem, and we do love each other,that's why I decide to marry him... But right now, I don't know what to do,we have been sad and painful for few days,I cannot imagine what will happen if we break up. We are still loving each other, but why we cannot be together........He has a child (with his 2nd ex)there,and his parents,and his parents' health not in good condition,he has much more repsonsibilies to stay Australia. He wish he could live with me in China if I cannot go to Austalia.But he can't.... I don't know what to do now,I try to be in confidence,I hope I wish there still be some way out.But just can't figure out..It's sad,very sad.We talk about that everyday,but just leave sorrow and much more pain. are we going to break uppppp?No,I just can't let go...he also.But he is so negetive, he is in sorrow to believe that we can't be possile together because the both reasons. I don't know now.Is there anybody give some possitive sugguestions? Can we still have chance to live together? Please ,please help us...Thank you.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 10, 2014 Share Posted March 10, 2014 I responded to your previous post and I do question whether this man is being truthful - have you discussed your case with an immigration lawyer? Is this the immigration people you mention - in your previous post you said his friends had told him the rheumatic disease would be a problem. If it is true that you cannot get a spouse visa (& I do recall something about 5 years) then the only option is for you to migrate independently, what are your skills, is that an option? In the short term would you qualify for a WHV? Or could you consider being a student in Australia? Neither of these are long term solutions but would buy you some time if this man really is worth it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Que Sera Sera Posted March 10, 2014 Share Posted March 10, 2014 I'm no immigration expert but I'm sorry I'd have to say that from what you've posted about him he doesn't sound a very good bet does he? If it was one of my daughters I'd be telling them to look elsewhere. Sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lebourvellec Posted March 10, 2014 Share Posted March 10, 2014 There is limitations to partner visas - can only sponsor for 2 PMV or parner visas. As he is already sponsored for 2 already he can not sponsor a 3rd. You need to discuss this with a RMA to see if you have compelling circumstances to get a waiver. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
searchjane001 Posted March 10, 2014 Author Share Posted March 10, 2014 Thank you Lady Lady... Yes, this man is trustful. He is just not so complicated and living in a very simple life all the time.And cannot handle the complicated cases.I once lived with him for almost 1 month in Australia, knowing his daily life.That's the one aspect that I love him, I am a simple girl also,or you may say naive. I have searched some information from internet,yes,I may not get a spouse visa anymore......Sad.... But it seems if you can prove your relationship for 3 years or already have babies,maybe get exception.But, I am losing confident now. If he cares about our relationship,he would try every possible and do anything. But what I saw is his sad but doing nothing...yes, very sad. Thank you for you advice,anyway.Wish you everything best!Thank you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
searchjane001 Posted March 10, 2014 Author Share Posted March 10, 2014 Thank you Sera, you sounds really like a mum telling her daughter...even my mum still expect our wedding...which is may not happen.I haven't told her what had happened. Thank you,Sera. Wish you and your daughters have happy lives ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
searchjane001 Posted March 10, 2014 Author Share Posted March 10, 2014 Thank you Lebourvellec.... Sorry,i don't know what's RMA,could you explain ?Thank you.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abz123 Posted March 10, 2014 Share Posted March 10, 2014 RMA is a Registered Migration Agent Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark 1234 Posted March 10, 2014 Share Posted March 10, 2014 "We have been together 18 months,and have seen each other for almost 10 times" Russian wife, then Thai wife... all sounds very dubious to me. I don't blame immi for refusing. IMO Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
searchjane001 Posted March 11, 2014 Author Share Posted March 11, 2014 yes, understood.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Archived
This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.