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Thank you Lebourvellec.... Sorry,i don't know what's RMA,could you explain ?Thank you....

Thank you Sera, you sounds really like a mum telling her daughter...even my mum still expect our wedding...which is may not happen.I haven't told her what had happened. Thank you,Sera. Wish you and your daughters have happy lives !

Thank you Lady Lady... Yes, this man is trustful. He is just not so complicated and living in a very simple life all the time.And cannot handle the complicated cases.I once lived with him for almost 1 month in Australia, knowing his daily life.That's the one aspect that I love him, I am a simple girl also,or you may say naive. I have searched some information from internet,yes,I may not get a spouse visa anymore......Sad.... But it seems if you can prove your relationship for 3 years or already have babies,maybe get exception.But, I am losing confident now. If he cares about our relationship,he would try every possible and do anything. But what I saw is his sad but doing nothing...yes, very sad. Thank you for you advice,anyway.Wish you everything best!Thank you

If someone still remenber,that I have posted a thread 2 days ago ,asking sugguestion,that the Rheumatic disease(MCTD) will affect the 300 or 309 visa?And thanks for kind friends' help. But....That isn't not the major problem now...Alas... My boyfriend is an Australian,and I am from China,we have been together 18 months,and have seen each other for almost 10 times,and also met the family from each other, and ..."are"going to get marry this April. The sad news,we got the message from some immigration people,that because his 2 marriges and my disease,it's impossible for me to immigrate to Australia even we get marry..Yes, he married twice,and..both EXs are from foreign coutries,one is Russian,and one from Thai.He cannot garantee 3nd wife to go to Australia........when we first met, I don't mind too much his 2 marriges,because he is really good man, his 2 failure in marriges not all his problem, and we do love each other,that's why I decide to marry him... But right now, I don't know what to do,we have been sad and painful for few days,I cannot imagine what will happen if we break up. We are still loving each other, but why we cannot be together........He has a child (with his 2nd ex)there,and his parents,and his parents' health not in good condition,he has much more repsonsibilies to stay Australia. He wish he could live with me in China if I cannot go to Austalia.But he can't.... I don't know what to do now,I try to be in confidence,I hope I wish there still be some way out.But just can't figure out..It's sad,very sad.We talk about that everyday,but just leave sorrow and much more pain. are we going to break uppppp?No,I just can't let go...he also.But he is so negetive, he is in sorrow to believe that we can't be possile together because the both reasons. I don't know now.Is there anybody give some possitive sugguestions? Can we still have chance to live together? Please ,please help us...Thank you....

Thank you for replying... but my boyfriend,he wants to give up... he doesn't see any hope there... it's sad...

Tooo sad,no body give sugguestion? Our relationship may end up this way........

is there anybody help？

Hello ,Sir/Lady I am new here, i have a concern that bother me and my fiance these days: My fiance is an Autralian, I am a Chinese, we get together for almost 2 years,and going to get marry this April.But from one of my fiance 's friend, there would be a problem to immigrate when you have rheumatoild diseses. Unforturnately, I have that disease, called (Mixed Connective Tissue Disease). Have to have the medicine every day.I live and work as normal person, but have to recheck regularly,and take the medicine.The cost is less,at least right now in China,there are not expensive medicine. We are planing to get marry in China,and star 309 visa.But informed that news, we are really sad.Just like a door shut off ....we are deep in love,but seems cannot live together... is there anybody having same experience? Can someday give some suggestions? Thank you ...Thank you...