Jacaranda

I've noticed in the shows I have watched (and that's not many,probably 5 or 6 in the early days)that when the husband goes for his trial job day?At the end of that day,the boss will say "We "could"offer you a job in the future"!So basically no firm offer of a job.Not sure how far along the participants were,potentially moving wise, when they were on the show,so maybe the boss factored that into the "could offer you something"!One family I recall,from Wales,the guy stated he wanted to leave Wales because he was sick of working 80 hr weeks!Has anyone forced him to work 80 hrs a week?You are the creator of your own reality!Why not just change jobs instead of countries?

:biglaugh:Ah Quoll that made me laugh!Thanks for the giggle hon!lol

No other show makes me feel as angry as WDU!I'm usually a passive,calm type person,but that show alone,can make me feel like throwing stuff at the TV! I haven't watched many of them,but some of the participants need a reality slap!(in a kind way of course lol)

I know its difficult where you live to get a job,as your partner is a carer,any possibility you could find work elsewhere,even if it meant travelling back home weekends or whatever?

Wow!Love that poster LR!:hug:

Really nice post LR!And yes agree with you 100%.Happiness isn't "out there"its within.Wishing you more beautiful days to come,and future happiness.:cute:

Harpo,your puppy is extremely cute!I hope your Mrs accompanies you on the walks?Jack would be a magnet for us women who love cute puppies!:yes:

Yeah I'd also like to know where this massive shortage is?

My two brothers are bricklayers.Live just outside Adelaide.Just lately they have had to travel interstate for work.They've been in their trade for a long time too.

Not sure if you were referring to me Melanie,I didn't have citizenship(Yeah I know,at the time of leaving Oz,it was only going to be for 2 yrs lol)so I had a 5 yr RRV.Got that renewed a couple of times,and then last Jan,applied for another and only got a one yr RRV.My aussie kids are here (UK)so if I don't go back to Oz soon,and they do?I'm gonna be here by myself. Quoll,you've made some good points re the spousal visa.

Well if you've known the guy for 20 yrs hon,don't sweat it!:laugh:I'm sure all will be fine! Its funny how it works for different people.Some people cope better if they use Skype etc to keep in touch,others prefer less contact.I'm guessing you'll be getting some UK visitors,and that will good too and give you something to look forward to.Im leaving the UK too soon,spent 30 yrs living in Oz.I am leaving with some sadness though.I don't dislike the UK,infact I love the place but due to visa obligations,I have to return to Oz.So this will be your first Oz Xmas?Excited or what?

Hi,dont worry,what you are experiencing is normal.Its a huge move right?Not just physically,but emotionally,financially etc.You've probably done the gist of all you have to do re the move,and your energy has been spent on doing that.Leaving "do's"are usually quite difficult to deal with.Thats normal too. The 4 years is probably a good idea,but please hon,if I were you,I would not contemplate having kids during this time.You've probably read on this forum of people becoming stuck once they do. Emotions are bound to be running high atm,you're probably tired from all the work and planning involved in this move,so maybe take some extra time to sit and rest,go out for a walk,just relax.You are going to be in summer when you land,so that will keep you pepped up.Try to re focus on all the positives re this move.Best of luck and I hope all goes well for you.Please keep us posted,and if you need support,dont be afraid to ask.:cute:

Had a abit of a giggle at this article Stacey,does any of it ring a bell?lol http://www.news.com.au/travel/travel-advice/accommodation/what-nobody-tells-you-about-being-a-backpacker/news-story/8533930d01d2ba5b5b62ab97d71e9827

Sorry to hear of your Mum passing away.Atleast now though you have clarity and you cant put a price on that!Best wishes and good luck for the happy future.

Enjoyed reading your post TPQ.My best mate lives just outside Townsville,and I've never been.She was born and bred in Townsville,and moved to Sth Oz when she got married years ago.We both lived in a small country town,and she always use to whinge like hell when winter rolled around,about how cold it was!lol She moved back up to Qld a couple of years ago,to be closer to family.

Please don't quote me,but I think it means you can leave Australia for a holiday oversea's!They might need to ring Immi (there is a UK number on the website)to just double check though.

Hi both my brothers are bricklayers,and have their own company.However even they are struggling,and both have had to go interstate lately for work.

Have a look at some of these bigger store websites for household goods.....and do some comprisons.... http://www.kmart.com.au/ http://www.target.com.au/ https://www.bigw.com.au/

There are a lot of things I'm going to miss,but the most important thing is my kids/grandkids.As for countries,I tend to adapt where ever I am,whether that's weather wise,food or whatever.

Stacey you'll be fine,the main thing is to drink a lot of water and obviously stay in the shade as much as possible. Just read a new thread hon,a female aussie poster (Koils)is looking for a travelling companion in Jan.See thread "Road Trip"for details.

Hi Koils and welcome to PIO!Nice of you to offer a ride/company,and I hope you get some replies! You're an aussie so I'm sure you're well aware of the weather etc.Good luck and happy travels!:cool:

Its a timely reminder Paul.I have two older siblings,both have had skin cancer.My sister has just had her 5th one cut out.She is only outside for short periods at a time.My brother on the other hand is outside all the time due to his job (Builder).

Hoola,really sorry to hear about your FIL passing away!Thoughts are with you and your family!:hug:

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Only you,and you alone knows whats best for you and your family Kiwi! I got quite a lot of flack from people (Not on PIO I might add)when I decided to spend a 3 mth career break away from my OH last year from the UK to Oz.People sharing their "opinions"and stating "No way could I spend that amount of time away from my OH" to "Oh god my OH would never allow me to do that"?Who really cares what other people think! No one was in my shoes,and it was the best thing I ever did because whilst I was there my Mum passed away suddenly and unexpectedly! Those people then shared their "opinions"when I got back and said "Thank god you went and you were there spending time with your Mum"!:arghh:You've obviously spent a lot of time discussing these plans with your family,and I'd like to wish you the best of luck and best wishes for a brighter happier future!