paulrickett

Manipulated the situation???? My God, your Dad had terminal cancer, stay...and if he still wants to go back let him, you stay where you belong

I would say go........the main reason is your kiddies ages- at that age you have complete control, as they get older it gets harder as they make their own lives and theres disruption of education, at your husbands age believe me from my own experience the last chance to go will creep up and be gone before you know it, finally again form my own experience if you don't go because of grandparents etc then sadly they will be the reason you didn't go causing resentment, i dont normally write on this forum but we went exactly the same scenario, if you can afford it to take the risk then do it my friend just remember its a brand new life ahead, Paul.

You only live once, come back to Blighty and don't live your life being sad, its not worth it....