should we just forget the whole thing??

[Guest The "legdes"]

Hi

 

Yes I feel the same too and these delays hit worse the older your kids are. We have a 3 year old a 13 year old and a now 17 year old - she was 15 when we started the whole process !! Now she may not even want to come as her life is starting here with boyfriends etc.

I can honestly say at this point I wouldn't advise anyone to even think of applying - it just doesn't seem to have been worth all the work and I'm not sure how much more stress we can take. The only thing we are holding on to now is that hopefully we are so far down the line we may get a visa this summer - if we were to think it could be another year off I think we'd give up.