NatW1986

Hey guys, wondering if any of you can help put my mind at ease. Met my partner (PR) Dec 2016 while he was home on hols and started a relationship, we grew up in same town knew eachother 20 years. I went to oz for 3 weeks in 2017, he came home Xmas 17 and popped the question, after a lot of discussions where to reside, we decided I go be with him aswell as my son, I flew to oz may 18 and planned our marriage for may this year and suss out schools and areas a d applked for PMV in sept 2018 but due to family unable to travel ( 2 sisters decided to be pregnant haha) he came home last Xmas for his annual visit and we tied the knot while all of our families were together and able to be part of it. I requested to change from PMV to 309/100 medical done and police certs already submitted. RFI straight away asking financial aspects which we provided statements of self sufficiency and plans of pooling expensis on my arrival and proof of what we paid together wedding expensis, santa gifts for my son, holidays together, ect, I got another RFI last march regarding my sons fathers permission which we settled in court, permission giving, court order submitted in March, havnt heard anything since. Do ye think this is a good thing or bad thing? I'm going out of my mind missing my husband and just wanting to be with him. Was considering 600 visa as this has been longest iv been apart from him but I'm worried about my son's education he's just finishing 3rd class in Ireland , any advice of this would be much appreciated.