Long time follower, first time poster here. I have a rather long story so please bear with me
I was born in England, and emigrated to Canada when I was 10 with my parents. Grew up on the prairies, went to uni to get a professional degree,worked for 2 years there, got fed up with the winters and came to Australia on a WHV. Loved it, applied for PR (189) which was granted last year. Currently living in a beautiful coastal part of Australia doing a job I enjoy for the most part. However, I'm not happy.
I'm over the 'honeymoon' phase of being in Australia. I miss real people, seasons, life. I get up every day, wander down to the beach and think how can I be unhappy? It's beautiful. But that's it. I'm over it. So, what to do? I'm 29, gay, not out in my location (small town, professional job etc etc). I have a partner who lives in Sydney who I get to see a few times a month which helps. It is a great relationship, but I'm unsure if it's a long term one for me or him for a number of reasons. He is not able to move due to work and business commitments.
I feel like I need to make a decision but I can't! My options are:
1) Move in with my partner in Sydney. I would be happy to do this, but would struggle for work in the field I am in, in Sydney, and find it incredibly expensive (career change might be necessary??)
2) Move back to Canada - I miss a lot about Canada. However, a move back would put me back on the west coast, away from all my family and most of my friends. I simply cannot handle another Canadian prairie winter.
3) Move back to the UK where I can easily get Locum work, and have many extended family and some friends. I've always wanted to move back there and 'try it out.' See what I missed growing up etc etc. However even at 29 I feel like I'm getting too old to keep drifting around!
4) Stay where I am - it's paradise, I have a good job, I can afford to buy a house etc but I m bored!!
I think I just have too many options and it's doing my head in! Helps to write it down. Any suggestions?