hi just wanted to share my experience. I moved to australia in 1996 with work and at first loved it. the lifestyle, new friends and job made it a great place to be. over the next few years, i met someone, settled down and even had some family also emigrate out, so you could say all was great. but something slowly started eating away at me and it was home sickness......the first thing i thought about each day was going home and the last thing at night was going home.....it got bad! so after quitting my job, splitting up from the girlfriend and selling just about everything i had bought here, i decided to go home (2000).
once i made the decision to go home, it felt so right, i felt like a weight had lifted off me and i was going home. so after a tearful farewell from my then ex, i got on the plane to manchester and left thinking i would never go back. when i arrived back i got off the plane and for a few months was happy back in my life in runcorn, back working for the same company and living in the family home. but again slowly something started eating away at me and it was a realisation that i missed australia, my mates and my then ex girlfriend. life felt like it had stood still in the uk with my mates doing the same thing, going to the same pub and complaining about the same things and yet i had seen and done so much in the 4 years away. to cut a very long story short, my then ex came to the uk, and she was able to do 6 months in the uk and six months in australia due to her work as a pharmacist. i slowly started to hate being in the uk but as i had landed a great job paying big money and giving me long term financial security, i ended up staying for 4 years until one morning not long before my partner was due to fly back to oz, we decided to give oz a go again....so off we went. that was nearly 8 years ago and i have never been back to the uk since. i knew immediately on return to oz that this is the place to live and raise a family. it just felt right the second time. we live north of brisbane, have a child and a great life here. i guess it was easier second time as i had some family here and over the last 8 years i have had two brothers and a sister along with their families emigrate. sure there are things that annoy me in oz and things i miss about the uk including a 50% drop off in salary but they are not so important compared to a good lifestyle and watching our child brought up here.
sorry if i have bored ayone with this message........