Ah hi @GooseRenders, thank you for your welcoming words. It is so tricky getting your head around it all, but like you say thank goodness for this forum, it's nice to relate to other people who are going through the same thing. That's funny you're in Dorset too, he's from Bournemouth, how about you? That's so exciting you're getting married soon, so has your visa been granted and everything now?