wow, your post bought tears to my eyes, Rainman, and I also kept nodding my head whilst reading it. I am so excited because I am finally moving back home to England at the end of October and bringing my Airedale and Siamese with me. The only things that I will miss when I leave Australia are my two sons who have sort of settled here - well one has and the other one hasn't, he has the Union Jack and Liverpool FC, (yes, I know, why THAT club and not Manchester City!) emblazoned on everything in his house! We originally emigrated here in 1985, my other half, my mum and our 3 children, the youngest was only 3 years old, the next one up was 11 and the oldest was 13. All 3 children endured 'pom bashing' all through school which really infuriated me as their parents, grand-parents etc all came here from somewhere else! All of us, apart from my husband, realised that we had made a huge mistake after only 3 or 4 months and my mother was particularly unhappy but my husband perfectly fitted into the 'okker' male, macho type and loved everything about life here. The problem with being so far away from England was the isolation from friends and family; my mother sadly died here in 1997 but I sent her ashes to England and when I finally get home, I will scatter them over the sea at Whitby as she always loved it there. My dad died in England and I couldn't spend time with him before he died. I am counting down the days until I step back on English soil. This is my first post here on this forum and I am really needing some help to find a place to rent when I get back. This may not be the right area to ask for help.