thanks verystormy. i'm being sponsored by Deakin University as a Lecturer, and yes they did sponsor 457 visas before. i would imagine that getting a visa for a Lecturer position wouldn't be so difficult, but it's been 3 months and my nomination hasn't been approved yet. the university made many mistyping errors on the nom. application and they had to submit a form 1023 for incorrect answers.
i shouldn't have quit my previous job, but i did, and now i think i made a huge mistake, and that my kids are going to be behind in school because of that
it is depressing to say the least. i'll try to raise my spirits though! what is done is done