Thanks Chortlepuss, I have been trying to find out information about coming back to the UK and how it will affect childrens education. That is really useful info about the 3 years in uk prior to uni and something we had not known. I do worry about getting stuck out there, not because I dont like it but because I have family and friends that I dont want to be away from for longer.
My husband is a nurse too. My daughter says she has just got used to the idea now, she knows to expect periods of up and down, we all are!! We have also managed to convince her that she WILL make new friends there.