Totally agree with you, was so upset at leaving close friends & family at first we had reguarly contact with everyone, we have been here 3 years now, & if I don't make the effort I wouldn't be keeping in touch with everyone we left behind! Sad really I thought that these were my really true friends, it turns out that they are really jealous at what we did as a family! No-one thought we would have the bottle to up & leave. My BFF didn't speak to us for 2 & bit years having recently got back in contact his response was he was really hurt that we moved so far away & was really jealous at what we did. (his words). So have had to move on It hurts like mad, but have made the most wonderful friends here & feel very lucky to made so many great friends here in OZ.