Would I be able to emigrate?

[sunlover]

Hi,

 

New to this forum, I replied to a post about someone whose ex was emigrating with his kids, which is sad.

 

My situation is slightly different - my ex (been divorced 10 years, he is remarried with 2 kids) has just emigrated and has a permanent resident visa - for himself and family and also our two children, who are 17 and 13. I just know that when the kids visit they will probably want to live there some day - if they do, I wondered what my chances of going to live there would be? (I'm 49!) Also I have a partner who is 57, he is less keen on the idea but I have only just thought about the possiblility.

 

I know I am getting ahead of myself a bit here as they may not even go! But we're all feeling on a bit of an emotional rollercoaster, the ex has opened a can of worms by doing this. The kids are really upset as they used to stay with him here every few days and it's very hard for them.

 

Any advice would be gratefully received! Oh by the way neither myself or partner would come under the specialist skills list I think, I work in medical field but not as a doc or nurse.

 

Thanks in advance.:confused:

[Guest stormgal]

Hi,

 

New to this forum, I replied to a post about someone whose ex was emigrating with his kids, which is sad.

 

My situation is slightly different - my ex (been divorced 10 years, he is remarried with 2 kids) has just emigrated and has a permanent resident visa - for himself and family and also our two children, who are 17 and 13. I just know that when the kids visit they will probably want to live there some day - if they do, I wondered what my chances of going to live there would be? (I'm 49!) Also I have a partner who is 57, he is less keen on the idea but I have only just thought about the possiblility.

 

I know I am getting ahead of myself a bit here as they may not even go! But we're all feeling on a bit of an emotional rollercoaster, the ex has opened a can of worms by doing this. The kids are really upset as they used to stay with him here every few days and it's very hard for them.

 

Any advice would be gratefully received! Oh by the way neither myself or partner would come under the specialist skills list I think, I work in medical field but not as a doc or nurse.

 

Thanks in advance.:confused:

 

 

I am so sorry to hear about it.

You never really know if you may or may not be able to migrate. There are so many options. But what I really think you should do is speak with an agent - just as a consultant to see what your options are.

Hope things turn out well for you.