I have heard so many bad stories about the partner visa, especially when you haven't been together for so long. With two of my friends it didn't work out because it had put so much pressure on the relationship and they told me it was horrible. Thus, I don't really want to risk that and was rather going for a visa that I can do on my own. Nevertheless, I didn't know that the 190 would take so long as the agency I am with told me it usually takes 6 months. The longer it takes now the more I am beginning to think about other options. At the same time it annoys me that I have spent so much money on this current visa and then going for another visa where I have to spent money again and don't even know it is going to work out is simply frustrating.
Thank you for the info about further options though...