Hi Everyone thank you for replying. It means a lot. Its safe to say that there seems to be a lot of people in a very similar situation. We have had a much better week this week and haven't argued for a while haha. we love each other very much and know we will get through anything.
my husband still has work up until Christmas and has been offered a full time position with a Bunbury carpet cleaning company. Its great news because we will have a back up and should have no problems getting our PR however the pay is horrendous so will be much worse off unless i can find a well paid full time job as well. I had an interview last week and didn't get the job, was devastated but am always applying for more. I think my husband will continue to make contacts in the building industry and hopefully he will be able to return as a carpenter quite quickly. I have made myself be a lot more talkative at the restaurant where I work and got chatting to some very lovely people who i have exchanged numbers with.....some work contacts for chris and some potential friends as well so that's great.
Me and my husband have decided to just stick to a plan for the next two years which is to save as much money as we can and then it will give us options, stay here and buy a house, go home and buy a house or go somewhere else. To be honest I wouldn't be surprised if we ended up going back to the UK at some point but on the other hand people are right in that maybe its just WA and we may well be better on the east coast or nearer a city which is something we can think about when we have PR.
We are not ready to give up yet!!