Thanks everyone for the replies, its taken me a while to come back on here as I have had so many things running through my head, I thought I had come to a conclusion that we need to go home but sometimes I get doubts so I took a week away from this area of the site to get my head together but still have mixed thoughts running through my head - think its going to take a while to come to any conclusion. Myself and my husband have decided to leave talking about a move for a few weeks, take time to think things over and see how we both feel.
I think that's the big question Harpodom, need to think very carefully about that one!!!
I agree with your comment Jules that my daughter won't miss what she has never had but surely she will feel she is missing out when she see's friends enjoying grandparents and families do you not think? I know when I was a child I felt I missed out on grandparents as I only had one grandma as a child who was quite old and sick, therefore I missed out on spending time with her, I saw my friends doing all sorts of things with there grandparents and felt I was missing out.
You have definitely raised some things to think about though, maybe I am taking things in Australia for granted but then again on the other hand I am feeling I am getting bored of things over here too, definitely need to sort things out in my mind. You are right about the schooling, shes young and will fit into another system very easily, they do say kids adapt better than we do.
Wow Lucia, our stories do sound so similar lol! You seem to be in the same place as me exactly, does your husband/partner feel the same as you about the move? It worries me that my husband will regret a move back as he is happy with his life and Job here but does back any decision I make as we always said we would go back if any of us felt this way. Good luck with baby number two who's on the way, how long after the baby arrives are you heading back, would love to here how your move goes.
Thanks for that input - will have to look carefully into this. The area we live at the moment is actually going through extensive renevations which we have heard will increase house prices, might also be worth holding out on selling for that reason too.
Thanks your right, if I am not happy then my daughter won't be your right
Thanks for this info, I hadn't thought about this, we currently don't have citizenship but are eligible, so if we apply now for myself, husband and daughter (will she need it if she was born here) then any other children will also be eligible????
Seems I have lots to think about, I would say I will give it more thought but haven't stopped thinking about all this since at least Christmas. Things just seem so much more difficult now we have a little one to consider, we were younger will less responsibility when heading out here. Hopefully we will come to the right conclusion for us.