In response to the thread made about me

[jack13]

A continuation of how rude people can be on here, despite my best efforts. A thread was made and closed about me without even me giving my imput. So here's my response. Thank you.

 

http://www.pomsinoz.com/forum/news-chat-dilemmas/209356-jack13s-quest-stay-oz-4.html#post1936485567

 

Erm,I really don't think it's jealousy and without sounding harsh,, doyou not think many, many people before you have already thought andtried this route as it's not really that original? There was someoneon Nothing to Declare the other day doing exactly the same thing andhe was finally refused entry because immigration were suspicious. Ithink what people are very kindly trying to tell you is that it's notreally a viable option long term. - See more at:http://www.pomsinoz.com/forum/news-chat-dilemmas/209356-jack13s-quest-stay-oz-3.html#sthash.ngToD7KR.dpuf

 

 

Yesbut if he is suspicious, he has obviously done something wrong. Or isplanning too? How can you be suspicious of someone who is compliantwith the rules? As far as I'm aware I'm not breaking any rules, I'mpaying my way what’s the issue?! I don't think Australia areexactly going to say no to 5 or 6 grand coming into the country viaone person who isn't taking anything out. I spend equal amounts oftime on shore and off shore. I have the funds. There is absolutely noevidence to suggest I am going to work, which I'm not because I don’twant too. So where’s the problem?! Please explain! If the worsecame to the worse I would perhaps one year just go for three monthsand opt to spend another three months in Thailand or Bali. Or maybeeven give NZ a try. As long as I miss the UK winter all's good. AndI'm not spending too long away.

 

 

 

 

Jack,Have you tried your luck in the gay scene in Melbourne. I believePrahran is very gay friendly if a suburb can be considered that way.I know you initially said you wanted to meet an Australian woman butthen confessed you were gay so I would be dressing up in your gayfinery and hitting the gay clubs if I were you. You could meet yoursoul mate who will sponsor you. - See more at:http://www.pomsinoz.com/forum/news-chat-dilemmas/209356-jack13s-quest-stay-oz-3.html#sthash.ngToD7KR.dpuf

 

 

Believeyou me I do. I like chapel street a lot and I also visit a few otherbars dotted around Stk and Fitzroy. I don't think you need to mentionmy sexuality though, its a bit irrelevant.

 

 

 

 

Also"I would like the visa but I would not be with some one justbecause they are Australian. That said I'd only ever dateAustralian." It doesn't make any sense? I really can't work outif this is all just a wind up - I can understand not being with aperson that doesn't share the same major goals as it could causemajor problems, but to say you'd only ever be with someone that couldget you in the country is really quite depressing. What happened tomeeting and falling in love with someone because of their qualities,values, morals, kindness etc - whether or not they can get you intoAustralia shouldn't even factor into it - See more at:http://www.pomsinoz.com/forum/news-chat-dilemmas/209356-jack13s-quest-stay-oz-4.html#post1936485567

 

 

Wellwhat I'm hardly going to fall in love with a German or a Pom? Like Iwant that!? I am attracted to Aussie Men and that’s that. I go tobars get chatting to a guy he opens his mouth and turns out not to beAussie. Its such a turn off. Just not attracted to them, can't helpthat can I now?! I met a couple of nice Irish guys but if they can'tget me a visa, it could mean I have to live away from Australia. Iwouldn't be happy with that, so it wouldn't exactly be a very happyrelationship now would it?! Like I say Iv'e met Aussie guys who couldget me a visa, and have really been into me. But for whatever reasonI'm not attracted to their looks/ personality. So I politely say nothank you. What I am looking for is someone who meets all mycrtierais, and if he dosen't he's obviously not right for me. I don'tthink I'd live in another country for anyone really, unless they weremindblowingly awesome but even then I dont know If I'd be happy, If Iwould resent them for keeping me away from Australia. It justwouldn't work out. Like I say its like someone who really wantschildren being with someone who can't give them children/ dosne'twant children. Deprevation of something you love, is not good foranyone. I'm a great beliver in fate and I think I am destined to meetsomeone who ticks all my boxes and I fall madly in love with, but IfI don't I will keep looking till I do. And I wouldn't settle foranyone than the best! Maybe thats why at 22 I'm still single, butnothing wrong with being fussy/ having high standards. Friends tellme I'm quite a catch

 

 

 

 

 

Mostof us live here already. Not sure why anyone would be jealous of youholidaying here? This year so far I have been to Sydney, Melbourne,Byron Bay, Gold Coast, Sunshine Coast, Stradbroke Island, BribieIsland and probably forgetting some more. It's like being paid toholiday when you get a job - See more at:http://www.pomsinoz.com/forum/news-chat-dilemmas/209356-jack13s-quest-stay-oz-4.html#post1936485567

 

 

Ijust think there's a general bitterness to my happiness. Peopleseemed to revel in my misery when I was back in England. They seemto enjoy lecturing me about getting on with my life in England but asfar as I'm concerned that wasn't living and what I'm doing now isliving properly. This year Iv'e been to Adelaide, Melbourne,Sorrento, Torquay and this weekened Gippsland and soon Perth. Sobelieve you me I get around a lot, as for the east coast places, beenthere done that years ago. Prefer Victoria tbh.