Thank you all so much for your suggestions and for taking the time to reply.
I will have a look at those places and the websites too, very helpful.
In regards to our lifestyle we don't live lavishly, we get a take out maybe once a month. I would cook every night and we budget our weekly shop as much as possible. Other than that the kids would have some activities on and then just a 3 to 4 bed house with a garden would be nice, and a car with insurance.
My husband would get the 200.000 aud a year for the first year plus a car and fuel card. He would probably leave early around 5am and travel back early too.
I just don't want to commit and then realise we haven't got enough money for all of us to live a decent life.
The children are 16 this month, 12 and 5.
I realise drugs are everywhere, but just wanted to see if the rumours are true of drugs being a very normal part of life and whether or not there are many drug users hanging around the streets of geelong for example.
People can do what they like in regards of wokeness, I don't mind. I just don't think it's something that should be taught in schools. Its something we would discuss as a family. But that's my opinion.
I wouldn't have a clue on how much food would cost each week or car insurance, fuel, kids activities and schools, electricity bills, bins etc.
Again thanks a mill so far.