Thankyou both for the advice!
Yes i see what you mean, though i'm certain iv'e read of instances for example, of people who obtained skilled visas, activated it on a short holiday and then never actually made the move over.... and still been granted a RRV. How do they prove ties if i cant and I lived there for years. To be honest i didn't appreciate how hard it might be to obtain this type of visa until i really started looking into it .
I think you are right, my gut tells me the same thing. We were mentally and finically prepared to make the move this year. But as time moves on Im finding it quite hard dealing with the added stress of Covid - leaving solid jobs and finding someone to rent our house in all the uncertainty - we are also very restricted on movement in UK right now, so its likely both of us would not get to see our family before we left, this is a big stress factor right now. It it would just be nice to have extra time. But then who knows what might happen, this time next year it could be even worse, god forbid.
Paul Thankyou for your offer, i shall be in touch, do you prefer DM here or via your website?