Thanks again, Quoll. For clarity, I said life reboot, not relationship reboot. We have each other and that's been enough for a long time. I won't go into the details obviously but while we have a lot of 'good' things here in the UK, we both feel a change, the right change, for the right reasons, can only be a good thing - possibly our baby is the change. Moving abroad is something we've wanted to do for a long time, simply the timing of this opportunity coming up at the same moment of our little miracle arriving is either a double blessing or a bit too much too soon. I had the opportunity to go to the USA last year but the employer got evasive just as I was seeking clarity. This time, the offer is nailed down, it is an excellent position and having met the people I feel reassured professionally and personally. My only real concern is helping my wife be more than just mummy, and our baby being well and growing up, for a while at least, in a safe, pleasant place.