Hello, I wasn't sure what to title this post but this basically sums up why I am hesitant to move back to Australia! To cut a long story short, my Australian husband and I moved back to the UK 1 year ago after a 2 year stint in Melbourne, where he is from. I am from London and I always thought this is where I wanted to be forever, where I wanted to raise my kids etc. But the last year has been so tough adjusting to the lifestyle in London again. We both miss the more laidback life, weather, finances and group of friends we had in Melbourne. We are lacking a social network so much for both of us here, and just end up feeling tired a lot of the time. I know people might suggest moving somewhere else in the UK, but if we're going to be a few hours away from family, we feel we may as well be in Melbourne near my husband's family. We are thinking of moving back, but being in our late twenties we would like to start a family in the next 2/3 years. We would like to avoid ping-ponging backwards and forwards a lot so would look to stay a minimum of 5 years to start with. This would mean having a child away from my parents and family (who I am close to), and I'd basically like to ask your advice on how this feels and how hard it is! Would love to hear from anyone who has been in a similar situation. We know we are very lucky to have the choice but sometimes I feel it makes it harder!Thanks.
