Marie Pulma

Thank you for all ideas and information. Appreciate so much. This would help me decide. God bless..

Tink thank you. I will check on it. AJ we are still together but we are like not sleeping together anymore. No husband and wife relationship anymore. Can you please give me idea Aj if He will do something bad to me physically how it would affect our visa. Thank you

Toots Thank you. No Im not telling to my family in my country. I dont want them to worry. I am not telling friends here coz I feel it wont help. AJ. Yes we are in a 457 visa. We are not yet separated. He have to live in kalgoorlie because his job is there and that company can sponsor us for PR.

I decided to end up my marriage when me and kids arrived here in Perth. I talk to my kids its difficult but later on I feel theyve accepted it already. My decision is the hardest part but I have to be strong. God is good I got a job. My husband and I dont talk in the house when we do we end up fighting. He is paying the rent and me paying the electric water and internet bills buying food for us and paying the school he is not sending anything for school as he need to move in kalgoorlie a year ago because theres a problem with his company w/ regards to our sponsorship. He wants the kids to move there with him He is not asking me to go but he said if I dont like there I stay and pay for my own rent and He will take the kids.we had a big fight as I said I will not allow him to take them. My son just turned 18 I said I will allow my son if he like but He cant take my daughter as she is only 13 and still needs me. She doesnt want to go with his father but of course she dont want to be separated with her brother and I dont like also. If I go with them because Im thinking of my children I will loose my job. My son will loose his job so we will be dependent again to my husband. He dont give money to me anymore and I know when we start life there and I dont have a job she will again force me to find work and help with the bills and to have money on my own. My daughter said sHe dont want to go but his thinking of his brother shes crying we are both crying I said I really cant give up my job here and she should stay with me its hard though but I’ll do everything to provide our needs pay our rent and buy our food. Im crying day and night. Ive been thru a lot of heartaches with my husband and his family and I can no longer follow his religion. I think if I can tell my kids the situation in kalgoorlie for them to know its much better to stay here in Perth they have reasons to their father. I said if he will force my daughter I will call the police. He decided to take them this coming february..

Id like to have an idea if its easy to find job there. If school is good. If life is okay there whats the difference to Perth. Im sorry my english is not good. Im so desperate I dont know what to do because my husband is forcing my kids. Our marriage is not in good term now.

My husband is working in Kalgoorlie. Me and our kids is here at Perth. I am working in a Hotel here at Perth as housekeeper and have another job. My son 18 is working at Mc donalds. My husband wants us to move on kalgoorlie to stay there with him I dont like because I dont like to loose my job. Even my daughter dont want to move as well. Can you please give me ideas which place is better to live perth or kalgoorlie? Is it good place for my kids. Thank you