We've been in Australia for 7 years now. It's not been an easy ride, both my husband and I have found it hard to find work. I've only very had temp work, my husband has only every had contract roles, jobs that last for 1 or 2 years and each new contract has been in a new state. We've moved interstate 4 times in those 7 years. I've only been able to go back to the UK to visit family once, only had them out once as money is tight for them and us and I cannot afford to visit anytime soon. We have just moved for the 4th time in the last month to yet another new state.
I am home sick, miss my family especially now we have our daughter and that my mother is getting old and while she is healthy enough, she is in remission for cancer. I miss history, varied culture, green fields, old buildings, proper pubs, Christmas lights in the cold and dark. I am fed up with moving, with having to start over and make new friends yet again. It's hard with a child, especially since I am at home with her alone. I am doing what I can to make friends, but it takes time and I am incredibly lonely. I really want to move back to the UK, I'd go tomorrow if I could, but finances don't permit that, also my husband wants to wait a few more years, though he has said we won't be moving around again, if he cannot secure further work here we leave and there is no way I could cope with moving and starting over somewhere new again. I know we will go back sooner or later, I guess it depends on how we settle here and if further work comes up.
I want to know what had been the deciding factors for other people in moving back home. What made you decided to go/want to go back to the UK? Was the move the best decision for you? How did you know the timing was right?