hi daffodil I came on here today as was feeling homesick from wales too . been here just over 2 years . came here for husbands job for 4 years . we sat down and done the pros and cons before a final decision to leave and knew it was nt going to be easy . it was going to be yearly trips back but that hasn't happened . did manage to go back this year on my own with 2 children one born since being in oz as I needed that trip back and felt quilty as family were missing out on new addition and the old feelings were surfacing about taking my other child away from family and friends . I enjoyed every minute home and it was non stop but it did make me appreciate the opportunity we,ve been given. I really feel for you as your situation is a tricky one with your husband being Australian . as my husband is from wales and deep down I think if I agreed to stay after the 4 years he wouldn't even consider moving back . and sometimes I feel like you made your bed u need to lie in it too. I hope you finally find a way to sort things .