Hi
not sure what I need from this post? Advice? Maybe just a rant! My wife is Australian, our two boys (14 and 11) are dual citizenship. I now have my permanent residency having invested a couple of thousand pounds via an agent. The house is on the market and we should find have approx $550k of cash to set ourselves up in Perth when we arrive.
A bit of background. For 20 years my Oz in-laws have given me grief that I have not taken their daughter or grandchildren home. The decision has not been easy, welove the uk and the corner of the UK we live in, have a nice house, camper van, motorbike, great cycling, friends and have earnt in excess of 65k the last 2 or 3 years. But it is not Australia! Most of the time my kids have yearned to move to Oz as we all now dis-like the long winters and the relatively short amount of time you can actually enjoy the outdoors here. Though we do try and surf in the winter if conditions are right!!!!
But here is the reality. None of my wife's relatives, sister, bro-inlaw, parents etc have shown any enthusiasm or expressed any encouragement once we have broken the news, in fact quite the opposite! It's not a personal thing, there have been no fall outs prior, but just that they are so bloody negative or wrapped up in their own "glass half full" lives! To the extent that today we received an e mail today from the mother in law with the following line.. "Hate to tell but saw on the news the other night that all the Poms are leaving Perth and moving back to England". Then straight onto telling how she had played golf all day. No explanation or anything to qualify the statement. All of the e mails have been along the same lines, "I don't know what he'll do for a job?", "You'll be broke", "It's too late for your eldest". There was not even a positive response when we excitedly broke the news. Just, "Oh, we didn't think you would as you have a good job, there are no jobs here."
So what should we expect? Is it that bad? I know that the state is on slowdown due to links with China etc, but the upside of that the exchange rate, nearly $2 to the pound, you can't have it all! WE should be able to be mortgage free if we are sensible. I have previously worked as a train driver, though it is ten years since I left that job after 12 years driving. I now work as a Transport/General Manager for a waste business. I have experience in tendering, compliance systems set up and use of, HR, transport law and consider myself to be a hard working, driven and forward thinker, I never leave a task or an opportunity until it is finished or exploited.
My eldest is very sacred about the move, friends etc, but he is a skater and loves to surf, now there have been 2 recent deaths, all going against us.
Maybe I need to hear positive stories or am I being too hopeful that the move is worth it?
Anty comments please, how did you find it, am I alone in wanting to feed the in-laws to the Sharks?
Thankss