gemma96x

Hi everyone thanks for your replies, I realise its probably not going to happen we are just a very small family it was just me and mum till I was 19 re married and had my little bro and sister I don't think of mum as old as my sister is 9 yrs yes it was going to be a granny flat or like for them was a dream/thought thanks for your input

Hi I didn't even think about at most I was coming for a year as I was on a working holiday visa so it never crossed my mind that a was leaving for good

thankyou for advise it just mind blowing that a have to pay for childcare from a stranger when my mum could do this and more and me and my husband would work hair tooth and nail for this to work

Hello yes she will be living with us we hope to get an livery yard as horses are where our love lies which would be her wage and mine I also don't mind having to get a part time job as she will also be carer for my children she is a hard worker but unfortunately spent her life looking after her mum and dad who are now deceased and us kids

Long holidays would be great but she works the kids have school it's either all or nothing

Of course she wants to move and so does my brother and sister we are very close as only the four of us, isolation and poverty oz isn't third world please elaborate

hi everybody a need HELP I moved here 4 years ago married my oz superstar and had beautiful twins I am now a permanent resident, currently living in Sydney and are going back to wagga wagga at the end of the year. My huge problem is I want my mum to come and live with us also my younger brother and sister who are 9 and 12 but this means she doesn't pass the family balance test, she is 49 turns 50 in December and would only have around 200,000 to bring with her she is not a skilled worker so a carnt go that route, is there any other options as I carnt find anything to even get her here apart from short holidays, but if the visa takes so long to finalise surely my brother and sister hopefully in time would become permanent residents and would eventually pass the family balance test please any info would be greatly appreciated...