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Thanks all for you replies. We are in WA, rockingham area. We have met lots of friends but not close enough to off load on to if you get what I mean... We always said before we come we are going to give it a year at least, then see how we feel...but that was without everything that is going on. We are still in discussions and have not made up our mind.. We could go home then come back further down the line but with the kids getting older it can make it much more difficult... really appreciate your comments thank you

Hi all well here is my story...we only been her just over 4 months, but from before we came it's been a difficult time.. We were all set to come end of May this year but my dad took very ill so we postpone for a few weeks to see how things were going to go..anyway after weeks in hospital and lots of waiting to see what was wrong, we finally got some answers. We were unsure of what to do as he was still poorly (slightly improving) our deadline was coming up to be in Oz so we talked about flying in and out to activate visa. My dad just kept telling us to go for it.. Anyway in the end we did and have been here since July. Hardest decision ever to make.. He continued to improve which was good news but then relapsed ended back in hospital for few weeks. All was going good but now he's been diagnosed with cancer which can be treatable but with his existing illness makes it more difficult. I'm missing all my family in UK and really want to go home. My oh is also thinking the same...we don't have people here we can talk too yet and we are feeling more and more isolated and wish I could just give my dad a hug. And support the rest of my family.. There are other reasons too that we are thinking of going home, but this is the main one. i know now people will say we need to stay longer but it's like everything is against us....maybe just bad timing... anyone been through similar situation? Any advice appreciated. thanks