Josh1

Hi all, I have read the forum for a while and just wanted to run my situation past you to see what you all think I should do. I moved over a few months ago from Scotland with my Australian girlfriend to Melbourne on a temp residence (309 defacto visa), we both got jobs quickly and are living together in a nice apartment. I generally enjoy living here, it's sunny and the lifestyle is a lot better than home although I'm finding it hard to meet mates. I left a good job at home to come over while telling everyone I was gone for good. In the 3/4 months before I left I got close to my ex girlfriend again. We spent a lot of time together and even since I've come over here we message each other a lot. We both say how we would like to get serious and be together etc. I know if I was at home I would 100% be with her. I know that I don't love my girlfriend, I realised that before we moved over although I had already forked out thousands for the visa plus all the relocation expenses, medicals etc. Now I need to make a decision. Do I stay here unhappy in a sunny place or return home where I would be happy in love but in the gloomy UK weather... Cheers, Josh