yorkshire rose

Can anyone advise on what the timescale length it takes to get a visa refund, sent in for a refund request late October 2016 and had no correspondence to even say they'd even received our application for a refund. :arghh:

HI Lilly Flower, I will probably be writing the same thread as you in a couple of years, we are currently applying for a visa. We have lived in oz before and came home because the eldest wasnt settling, he finished school, doesnt see the friends he was pining for and has become an engineer, he told me two years ago he was going to move back to Oz i could have killed him lol . In the time that I returned to the uk I have had my eyes wide opened, Im lucky if I see my son once a month, my daughter is about to start university and certainly needs to leave home lol ,although I am putting her hopefully on the visa, (sorry im waffling ) what Im trying to say is that i have argued with myself so many times about what is the right thing to do ? I dote on my children and I will always be there for them but I also dote on my youngest son and husband and I am not going to sit and stay where I am unhappy waiting for a telephone call or a quick visit to see how im doing ,and they certainly dont want me visiting constantly. They will visit us in oz but like you I am hoping and praying my daughter will follow after university.I look back and I made a massive mistake, my boy wanted to come back to UK and I felt so guilty I couldnt settle and I wouldnt allow myself to settle to be honest. We spent so much money on starting again in the UK but honestly within six months of returning the novelty of family had worn off and we hardly saw anybody, my mother in law says she saw more of us when we were in oz. Im wondering if its just the guilt thats stopping you from settling down? Like somebody else has said you could come back and the children may come to their senses in a few years and tell you that they are moving to Oz and it could be too late for you to get back (which is basically whats happened to us I just made the points but in 2 years id have no chance so this is it for us its now or never ) I think its very hard for us mothers to let go, that said its still not easy to put yourself and your marriage before the kids. Good luck honey xxx

i never got any email saying it had been submitted? is that right? however when i log into skillselect it says submitted. And in the correspondence section is a PDFs saying it has successfully been submitted.

 

worrying a little here that i havent submitted it right

HI Frank, we received an email, for both submission and invite so I would just check the e mail it could just be a typing error, you can have a look at your submitted application anytime .

Good Luck

Lisa

ps Captain C put my mind at rest whilst waiting for the invite.

Absolutely I had over 80 s on everything but reading but I took advise from this forum I bought tnbe book with CD from Amazon (cheaper) and worked through it I was shocking at telling the details of graphs in the allocated time so I wasn't surprised but I have sat the ielts 5 x and got over 7s once I passed this first time x good Luck x

Dear Supercow, I am just wanting to thankyou sincerely for your thread, I read it and read and gained the courage to apply for the pearson test, I, like you, passed it the first time, I believe this test to be so much easier, especially for English educated people, however as you have previously stated this is not a guarantee ,but for me the whole set up was much better than IELTS. I sat the test on Wednesday and had the results the following morning. I would not have attempted the pearson test without reading your thread as the IELTS had knocked my confidence, Thank you so much for sharing your experience.

:notworthy: xxx Lisa