Hi there,
I have been living in Oz for ten years and have met my fiancé here, who is Australian. We are due to get married this year and have a really good relationship but I am having doubts as I am not sure i can commit to living in Oz for the rest of my life. His work is here and he is not able to move to the UK for at least ten years, by which time my family (parents) will be very old. I am so scared as I do not want to be living here, married, with no prospect of moving back. I have spoken to my fiancé about it and he is very clear about his position (ie he cannot move his work to the UK) so it is really up to me. We visit the UK at least once a year, which helps, but my family mean everything to me and now is crunch time! Do I accept that I can't have everything and commit to a future life with my fiance here or do I listen to these doubts and act now?
thank you for your help.