Hi all. Sorry for huge delay in thanking everyone for their help! I was trying to reply from Kathmandu and the message kept failing so I gave up eventually. Just to update. Yep I couldn't do the medical until it was requested by my case officer (thanks for letting me know) and I had already left London by then but at least I could stop worrying about it. I was able to complete the medical in Kathmandu who then put it through their e-system to London, there was no problems at all, all smooth sailing. It took a week or 2 to show up on their system in London in case anyone is wondering if theirs is lost. I submitted my police check after I had submitted my application but I paid extra for have it done speedily and that also came back really quickly and a friend sent it on for me.
So 6 months later I finally made it to Aus! It was a hard 6 months but for anyone that is waiting..hang in there, it seems like a really daunting process at the beginning with all the forms and things you need to do, and the expense nearly finished off my bank account..and the waiting was a little painful (quite painful at times!)..but you'll get there. I can now take a bus to a beach and best of all finnnallly back with my hubby! Good luck everyone and thanks again was so great to have peeps out there willing to answer my questions and was fantastic advice!