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My wife, son and i are moving to dee why nsw in 6 wks. I'm starting to feel very nervous. The enormity of the move is just starting to hit me. Am I doing the right thing dragging my wife an son across to the other side of the world? . My wife & boy have never been before. We are leaving secure jobs, nice home. Lets hope it all goes well. Otherwise my head will be on the chopping board!

Hi

My husband, myself and our 3 yr old have moved to Melbourne just 6 months ago, having never been to Australia at all. We sold up in the UK and just went for it, having no plans to return! For me its been an attitude and state of mind. Its different here, lots of things I prefer as my lifestyle fits here, I love been outside, walking, cycling, running, horse riding and I enjoy doing all of this in much better weather here!!!

I feel my little boy can be a kid here, starting school later, playing in the sea and sand for the last 6 months. But we came here with the mind set that this is "home" it will work, and I will throw myself into everything and anything, yes I miss friends/family but I try to remind myself of what I love here.

I had loads of ..omg what are we doing!!! but I can honestly say I have not regretted making the move, just wish I came sooner! Its a fabulous place to live.

Enjoy x

Hi Missylodge

Hello and welcome to Melbourne, its a fab place, we love it too. We have been here since November last year and are enjoying every minute. We live near Berwick in the South East Suberbs. We too have a 3 1/2 year old little boy, so let me know if you are around and we could meet up. :-))

I live in a nice area back in the UK with barley any crime with my parents etc .. but im not into the whole lifestyle alot of british people have come home from work and sit indoors as the weathers generally rubbish!

just mean like hows the job in general? as my current role not mentions any big names is a terrible place to me atm, every sentence ends in if you dont we will discipline you, weve have lads commit suicide actually in work and others have had break downs or forced out ... its not my scene i dont enjoy! the money and overtimes good but here in northen england ... i like simple pleasures like a nice dry day which is rare to come home and sit in the garden and relax not sit cooped up inside in fron of the tv .... there is things to do in the uk but as i class myself as working class it all costs alot of money and alot of things are weather permitting.

Hi Seaneylad

I can't comment on the job front i'm afraid as its not my line of work. We have been living in Melbourne for 5 months now, and i'v read a lot of replies to your questions saying " its the same as the UK, work, shopping, paying bills, etc ...... I really understand what your asking .. the simple things in life, sitting outside, walking the dog in the sunshine etc.

Every state is very different in Oz, so I can only comment on Melbourne but we arrived in Novemeber, and I put my shorts on and i'm still sat here now in my shorts 5 months later!

The heat here isn't horrendence and I spend 90% of the time outside, early morning running, dog walking, sitting out eating breakfast, evening meal.

We work hard, just the same as you would in the UK, and of course you have to do the shopping, pay bills, but for us every weekend is a holiday, so much to see and do for FREE because of the nice weather, picnics in the park, beach.

So to answer your question, yes I do think Oz can offer you more than the UK for the lifestyle you enjoy. The only things I would think about are:

Your job here would need to be at least 1.5 - 2 times the salary in the UK as cost of living is more expensive and been in a completly different place, you don't want to be skimping and have no money for going out, as you need to be able to socialise to meet people. Check out Seek.com for jobs, it may give you an idea of what you can expect.

Lastly, leaving your family especially if you are living at home, it will be a massive change, but hey, you are young, no ties, life is too short, do your research, with an open mind and friendly smile you can do anything.

Good luck

JO P

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Thanks Jo

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Hello people. I'm feeling quite homesick today. Even after being here for 2 and 1/2 years it still hits me sometimes. I just read a post saying how lovely it was to pop around the corner and see their parents and get a hug from their mum and it's made me quite upset. I've recently found out I'm pregnant, and I'm thrilled about it, but it just breaks my heart that mum and dad aren't here to share it with me. They are coming over closer to the time, but it's just the little things. I miss my friends so much too and as much as I love it here in Oz I'm still feeling the pull of the UK. My fiance is Australian but he understands because he lived in the UK for 8 years and knows what it's like to be homesick. I'd love a visit home but can't afford it right now.

 

I'm sorry for this rather gloomy post, but I know there are people out there who feel the same way sometimes and it feels good to write it all down.

 

Sarah x

Hi Sarah

Iv only been here a few months, but having that pang of homesickness probably always raises its ugly head no matter how long you have been here.

Congratulations on the baby, I can imagine this is hard and makes you feel even further away. It sounds like you have a fabulous Fiancé who understands you, you need to make the most of him and don't bottle any thing up.

Maybe once your parents have set a date to come over that will ease things, and although friendship take years to build, I'm sure you have met some lovely friends here, again lean on them I'm sure they will be their for you.

I hope this cheers you up a bit, you have family that loves you and a baby and Fiancé to hold you together, concentrate on all the little things you love here, the blue sky, the gorgeous ocean, I know it can't replace the hug of your Mum, but that will hopefully come soon and I send a virtual hug !

Wishing you well through your pregnancy, and those hormones won't be doing you any favours at the moment.

Take care

Jo P

Hi All

We moved to Melbourne 3 months ago having never stepped foot on Aussie turf. Many people in the Uk thought we where mad but we asked ourselves if a 3 week recci would change our mind, the answer was No as we both know it takes months to settle into a new area let alone country.

We did so much research, we shopped in Coles on line for an idea of cost, we cyber walked most streets and areas where we thought we wanted to live, although this was easier as the choice was a 25min drive from OH new place of work. I know this isnt the same but even now I go to new places and think oh I saw this online!!!

We sold up in the UK with the attitude of we will make this work and just throw ourselves in to this new place. Don't get me wrong its been hard at times but I don't know if a recci would make it easier??

Good luck to you and everyone who is coming out, it took us 18months to get our visa and as you all know, a boat load of life savings, I suppose we didn't want to waste the money of 3 flights to just ease our fluttery butterflies of uncertainty when although it was jumping in with both feet I was 99% sure we were doing the right thing for us.

Lastly I just want to say we flipping love it !!!!

Jo P

evening all, as i type i am in a hotel room with hubby and daughter surrounded by all our worldy belongings whilst my eyes are stinging through tiredness and having been crying generally most of the day!

 

we have had a couple of crap days as does/will everyone who goes thru this. But today was hard, very very hard and i feel totally exhausted now. Last nite we had dinner with my parents which went better than i expected and the plan was to say farewell (my mums choice) but i said to make it a little easier they said goodbye to my daughter last nite then myself and hubby went up this morning. We said we will text asap we land and then will call over the weekend i gave them both a huge hug said i loved them and then came away. It was horrid and i cried and cried in the car. i had to go to the bank right after to close an account and whilst talking to the lady i started crying again!!!

 

on top of that our bestest friends in the world who are taking us to the airport, she has been crying now and then so getting it out but he has said nowt and just kind of got on with it until today, he says he feels like he hit a brick wall and it all became reality so he broke down at work and had to go home!! we had dinner with them tonite and it was tough, very.

 

tomorrow we fly and its just our friends and my son at the airport, not really looking forward to it, at all.

 

knew this would be hard, but im also sooooooo grateful to have good friends meeting us at the other side.

 

so time for bed as now im peering out of one stinging eye and my head is splitting!

 

goodnite all:SLEEP:

Hi Kellyjamie

Im reading your post and its like rewinding 2 months for me. We did that in Nov, I had 3 days with family whilst my husband was at work saying goodbys before getting on the train and meet him at the airport ready to fly the following day. I was exhausted, emotional and felt very low and selfish for upsetting everyone. It was a relief when it was just us again as I could feel excited again.

We have been here for 3 months now and I absolutely love it my parents are coming over in 2 weeks and my husbands parent come over in April. I really hope once they get here they will understand why we choose to move.

Keep your chin up, you have done the hardest bits now.

Enjoy your flight I loved it as It was so nice just to relax for a while after the frantic months we had before. xxxxxxxxxxx

JoP

Hi

We are renting in Narre Warren South at Berwick Springs just on the lake and its a lovely area here. Minutes from Eden Rise and 5k from Fountain gate. We looked at a lot of properties is Narre Warren, north and south and i prefere south, i noticed in alot of area which didn't feel as nice people parked on the grass verges and slightly more scruffy...... I wouldnt buy here though as other have said its a bit sprawl of new houses with every bit of land up for sale, after living in the country in Northumberland in the UK i thought middle suberbia is what we wanted .... im not so sure now, i cant get used to seeing houses out of every window, dont get me wrong beautiful houses manicured gardens lovely lovely area, perfect for renting until we decide what we want.

The old village of Berwick has a lovely feel to it, bit the traffic around here is pretty busy and with all the new estates popping up it going to get worse, saying that i dont know enough about other areas maybe this is a problem where ever you live

Merry xmas to you all xxxx Jo

:xmas24:

Just interested in what current residents feel are the pros and cons of living in Berwick versus Narre Warren and vica-versa. We like Berwick a lot, but you seem to get more property for your money in Narre Warren so would appreciate some view points on both. Also, are there any major differences between Narre Warren South, North or East.

Thanks so much,

Richard

Hi we have just arrived so its very fresh in my mind. Firstly the houses are much bigger here so any extra furniture i would bring even if you replace it at some point. Most houses have wir (work in robes/ wardrobes ) so i would invest in chest of draws instead. Storage boxes are more expensive here and would be useful in the bottom of the walk in robes but remember no wicker. I would bring white goods and a few fridges will never go amiss. Bedding, duvet ( not feathers) pillows, towels are cheaper in UK if bought from tesco or alike.

On the whole furniture, crockery, electricals are same as uk price wise we have found, the one thing i would bring are mattresses as we have found the cheapest to be for a king $500 im sure you can find cheaper in UK.

Clothes are similar in price and just as nice, hope this helps sorry its a bit of a jumble, its a fab place and im sure you will love it.

Good luck x

Hi Steph

Im probably not going to be much help I'm afraid. I have just emigrated with my hubby and 3 yr old, we are living south east of Melbourne, but I wanted to reassure you that it's a fab place, the people are very friendly and you are incredible brave but don't be put off, if your travels bring you my way please send us a message. Good luck, hope it all works out for you xx

Just to let evryone know, we are having a get together at Wilson Botanical Gardens Berwick, Victoria on Sat 22nd Dec at 1.30pm at the kiddies play park for picnic/BBQ, everyone is welcome:xmas23:

Hi

We have been in Oz a week now, we are living in Monbulk in a serviced apartment but are looking for long term rental in Berwick, Narre Warren region. I am 35 and my oh starts work this week. We have a 3 yr old little boy and once we are sorted with childcare etc i will work part time but untill then im free any day or time if anyone would like to meet up. We are free as a family on a weekend and would really like to get to know some lovely people but im a bit billy no mates at the mo lol!!!!

Thanks jo xx

Hello everyone

Well we are now homeless and all our worldly belongings are making the long journey. We are staying with a friend till we fly on Saturday so it's lovely waking up and not having my long list of jobs to do. We had a leaven do last night which I really enjoyed and even managed a speech ! So this week it's saying goodbye to my family so I have a real sinking feeling, I'm not looking forward to it at all. It really doesn't get any easier, but this time next week we will be with you all. He he xxxx see you sooooonnnn x

Hi All

Thank you all for your kind words and encouragement, im just waiting for packers to arrive this morning and feel dare i say it quite organised, i will be glad when all the stuff goes as the house is a tip it driving me mad! Ben is very excited about going to a new home especially with the trampoline! Im starting to get a bit excited and i keep pinching myself because i cant believe its happening. We would love to meet up with everyone once we arrive im really looking forward to that bit, good food,wine, sun and nice people what more do you want xxx

See you all soon wahooooooooo!

Jo, Richard and Ben

Hi All

Well its all happenening and i feel like im on a rollercoaster and cant get off:wacko: The packers arrive next Wed 17th and our house sale completes the following week 24th so we are busy cleaning stuff, selling stuff, and deciding what we need in suitcases versus whats going in container. We have opened aussie bank accounts and got a serviced apartment for a month with a v friendly family in Monbulk just near Berwick which is where we would like to get long term rental. We have booked our flights for 3rd Nov and it seems to be approaching very quickly. There is 2 things bothering me, we have started the goodbys and my god its harder then i ever imagined even thinking about it brings on the tears again, the other thing is my little 3yr old boy, i keep trying to explain that people will be coming and taking our things to our new house in a big wagon, as he will be around when packers come. He is already in tears when we have sold some furniture so i dread to think what its going to be like when they take his bed, wardrobe etc. Iv put a suitcase out and let him choose what toys he wants to keep with us, but i dont think he really understands but i dont want to underestimate those little ears.

Anyway not long now, and im starting to get a bit excited but it feels like a long list of jobs away!!!:biggrin:

I keep telling myself if all of you can do it so can we xxxxx

Jo p

Hi to you all.

Hoping you can all help me, I have ridden for years and compete in the uk in Dressage and I'm affiliated with British Dressage and slowly have moved up the levels to medium,(I prefere competing affiliated to get points and be able to move up the levels rather than doing club level dressage for fun) unfortunatly the shipping costs where to much for my mare and she was also a little worrier bless her so she is staying in the UK with a lovely new owner. We will be living in Berwick just east of Melbourne and I plan to get another horse when we have found our feet. I will want to compete in Dressage and wonder how it all works over there if anyone can explain it to me and give me ideas of keeping horses in Berwick area and where do you compete I would be greatful also how do you keep them in Melbourne climate? In the UK mine where stabled at night from Sept to May as it's sooooo cold here !!!!

So excited to get to Oz and start looking for a new horse as its been very hard leaving my gorgeous mare. :-(

many thanks

thanks all

Hi

We have just got our date for leaving the UK so we need to find a services apartment within 20-30 mins drive of Boronia ideally in Berwick but anywhere around those areas.

If anyone can help or give some advice that would be great, we will be arriving on Mon 5th Nov but it will be quite late in the evening. We want to rent for around a month to give us time to sort out permanent rental and wait for furniture.

OMG I'm so excited..... And a little scared !!!!!!

Thanks

Jo

Hi Joanne and Lee

We are still in the UK at the moment but if everything falls into place ( fingers crossed ) we should be there by November. My husband has been transferred to GSK in Boronia so we are wanting to live in Berwick (it looks lovely on street view!!) I'm getting very nervous now having never been to Oz. My husband is 42 I'm 35 and we have a little boy who's 3. How are you finding Berwick and life in Oz?

Its lovely to speak to someone who has done it, as you know how we are feeling, the waiting is driving me mad I just want to get there and start making friends and settling in !!!!

Jo & Richard

Thanks everyone for all your advice and info :-)

Jo

Thanks Purp

Your reply is really helpful

Regards Jo

Hi

We are awaiting our visa to move to Sydney later this year. We have a little boy who is 3 in August and would of been starting 2 1/2 days at a nursery in the uk this September, which would be free. (:biggrin: saving on childcare!)

Please can anyone tell me how it works in Oz, iv read that they dont start school till their 6 ?? so is it just paying for nursery/ childcare till then. I know at nursery in uk they start learning abc, etc from 3, so im a bit worried that he maybe missing structured learning, I know its our responsibility also to teach him numbers, abc etc.

I would be grateful for any info on the yrs 3 - 6. Where they go, what you pay for, what they learn.

Thank you

From a very excited, although a little nervous, jo