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<p><p>Tell me how you are getting on, dont be scared, you can do it. If you need to tell them you hve a friend here that you can come to, then tell them you have me. I would do anything to help people in the same situation as I got stuck in and its so unfair that they can leave and then try and control you (dont get me started!!)</p></p>

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<p><p>Anywya, I think it would help if you had a friend out here, it certainly did help me in my case - one friend was enough. She said she would put us up, help us, look after the kids whilst I found a job etc etc adn this did go in my favour - rather than having nowhere to go</p></p>

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<p><p>Where do you want to go? We are on the Gold Coast. I would not have chosen here but had to as this is where my friend was, but now we are here I LOVE it</p></p>

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<p><p>You can do it,</p></p>

<p><p>Best wishes to you too, the world needs more strong women!</p></p>

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<p><p>Take Care</p></p>

<p><p>Stephanie</p></p>

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<p><p>Hello I am so sorry I have only just logged in and got your message. How are you getting on? Please mail me on <a href="mailto:bluecatnurseries@yahoo.co.uk" rel="">bluecatnurseries@yahoo.co.uk</a> I check that and will get any message you send me</p></p>

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<p><p>Yes it cost me so much because he fought back. Your situation is exactly the same as mine. I had no one here either, but we LOVE it, I would not go back if you paid me. Their father did follow us out here and things have all calmed down now - I wish he hadnt but its best for the kids. When I got permission, I had a clause put in that if we were unhappy or it didnt work out over here that I could give him 3 months notice and he would not prevent us moving back to the UK. I was worried about being stuck out here too</p></p>

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