TheBs

Hey, so we are on the journey AGAIN! Third time lucky, due to personal circumstances each time we’ve had to put our Aussie dream on hold. 
the first time we were 28 and 34 with 2 kids a baby and 3 year old. It seemed the perfect time. 
the second time we were 36 and 42 kids were then 8 and 11

Now we’re 38 and 44 kids are 10 and 13 it really seems if we don’t make it now we never will. 
I need success stories that were not mad at our ages to up root and start again! 
The way I see it is if we lived to 80 we’ve both got almost another 35 yrs plus to make some wonderful memories and give our kids opportunities they wouldn’t have here 

Has anyone brought over a teen, did they adapt ok? My daughter will be almost 14 probably of all goes to plan, I worry I’m taking her away at a pivotal point in her teenage years of making those friendships and connections. 
 

Hi I know this is an old post, but I’m trying find out whether my Diploma in nursing and BSC Degree in Public Health Nursing (Health Visiting) is enough to at least get me to Australia even if I can’t get a pin? 

Sorry to jump on this, but what about those in their 40s? Assuming time frames by the time we get out I’ll be 40-41 and my husband 45-46.

we have the points as it’s my visa we would apply on so I’m still in the age bracket (just) what about him for finding work? He currently works for the council finance department 

Hi all, I trained as an adult nurse in 2007 but via a Diploma of nursing. 
I then went on to do my BSC Degree in Health Visiting. I thought this would give me the degree qualifications I needed to pass the skills test, but now I’m worried it’s not enough. I know that I can’t be a health visitor in Australia as the role doesn’t entirely exist and has its own degree, but is it enough of a qualification to at least get me to Aus? 
can anyone advise? Thanks  

We our doing our reccie trip in August, I know it’s winter over there, buts it’s the best time to take the kids out of school, we’re planning to go to Perth, and Melbourne. 
we took East coast off our list because I do not do well with humidity! 
We’re interested to see what visiting both places will do to our decision, we have two sporty children 10 and 13. 
We have family in Perth and friends in Melbourne. 
Although I don’t want the “Benidorm” way of life, I know a massive plus for my son will be how often he can get to the beach! In the UK he is begging us to get the pool out from April! He swims for the local swim team, water sports is life for him. 
For this reason we are edging towards Perth due to the climate.
 The house prices from what we have seen in Melbourne that do have a pool are high and few and far between (rentals) and then the weather wouldn’t allow for this outdoors way of life. 
So if Perth doesn’t tick your boxes I guess it’s ok to say and luckily you can go anywhere

 

That’s useful to know though, thank you. 
As I said, I think talking to him you may query if he is on spectrum, but he is fully independent and coping/thriving in mainstream so hopefully it goes in our favour when the time comes

It’s difficult to tell. 
If you know Autism you can tell. 
I have professional friends who know Autism say they can tell, but his teachers questioned me on it and were suprised he is. 
Strangers to him such as his football coach or friends parents are suprised when I tell them, but his swim coach who has experience with SEN said she knew 

I wouldn’t want to lie in case it scuppers everything and it’s on his medical records anyway x

Perfect thanks so much. 
we are back at the very beginning of our journey due to unforeseen circumstances everything has been on hold for 2 years. 
 

He has a 1:1 in the classroom just to prompt him, he does a majority of the work himself and they only put that in this term (he’s 10) so he’s managed without until now 

we’ll definitely take it into consideration when looking for an agent though, thank you 

Hi all, 

I’d recently read I would struggle to get permanent residency visa if my child is Autistic, so I done a quick google and found that visas are often denied because the child can’t pass the strict medicals. 
 

my son has Asperger’s, he’s in main stream schooling and other than missing some social cues and a short attention span most people don’t realise he’s Autistic until I point it out. 

Has anyone got any experience in applying for visa with a child on the spectrum? 
many thanks 

I can see all sides. I think it does depend on your background and experiences. 

My in laws would be the type that would put on a brave face not necessarily like the idea but support it. My mother in law moved over from Ireland with her family at 15. But her and her sisters haven't strayed far from each other at all. One of our cousins live in New Zealand now the rest still local 

My dad was in the Navy and is all for me going, though my step mum has said he's putting on a brave face. He knows all too well the risk that you might not get home for a loved one, again maybe he doesn't have as strong maternal tie as he hasn't lived with me since I was 5, bit we are very close and I know he'll miss me.

My mum however, is the one that I feel did "emotionally black mail" me I thought about it a lot and the usual, you can't take the grandkids away from me, it's not fair statements I suspected. But to then get texts about how you contemplated suicide before and the only reason you haven't is because of the kids is not fair. We then got to the point where we almost stopped talking and then I didn't go. (She has other grandchildren) I explained I was doing it for the kids to give them a better life don't you want us to be happy? And she said I don't care about your happiness. 

This second time round I have adopted beachbabes thought process. You can't stay around for someone else's happiness. I am not responsible for them. You have to do what's right for you, by someone asking you to stay essentially what their saying is your needs are not as important as mine.

 As a mother now, as much as I love my kids their life is their journey not mine, it's my job to love and support them and encourage them. My mum made the mistake of making me and the kids her world and everything in it, now if we leave she has nothing. Having grown up with tears when I wanted to go to a university more than an hour away, or move out with friends it's made me push back, I wouldn't do that to my kids. 

So I appreciate the honesty from you all, I get that no it's not just a 24hr flight, but also it's not never again. We had a lady in our town hit by car a died at the scene two days ago none of her family were there either and they lived 5 minutes away. I know it's a sentimental nice thought that we die peacefully in a bed surrounded by loved ones but sometimes it's not like that. I can't hang around for 10-15yrs just in case, I think you have to accept that part of the move.

We have decided however that we aren't telling family until we have submitted the visa application so they know it's a definite possibility, there's no talking us out of it and it's in the hands of the authorities whether we stay or go

On 19/01/2022 at 09:29, BeachBabe2022 said:

 

No. Wasn't hard at all

It was something I wanted with all my heart, and nothing was going to stop me

But then again, I told them after I have emigrated

Rang them up, and said cannot come round for dinner next week, as ringing you from Australia.

Family were a tad shocked, but ultimately happy and excited for me.

More interested as to when they could get a free holiday staying with me

Your family will get over it. Don't let their sulking put you off.

And you are hardly going to the moon - only 24 hours away

Best of luck

 

Wow, that's an aspiring outlook to have on life. 

I agree with your thought process, hopefully I'm as mentally strong as you too. .

Where did you go? Did you go single or as a couple/family?

7 minutes ago, Lavers said:

School fees, being eligible for centrelink payments and yes personally it would just be security for me.

As Marisa says if you were to come on temporary visa then the goal posts move and you couldn't get PR it would mean uprooting the kids again and potentially having to go home again.

Ok thank you. 

Yes I understand the uproot of everyone should I not get PR would be difficult.

That's why I was wondering how many people have been successful with going on sponsor and then getting PR and how they found it x

9 hours ago, Marisawright said:

@TheBs, you sound a wee bit confused. 

If you're the principal applicant, then your husband's age doesn't matter.  He will still get PR under your application regardless of his age. 

With a 482 sponsored visa, you have to stay with your sponsoring employer (state is irrelevant) for the whole duration of the visa.  If you leave their employ, you all lose your visas and have to go home.  

There's no difficulty with your husband and children being included on the 482 or any other visa for that matter, you just include them. The employer will expect that. 

You are right, the 482 visa will get you to Australia much faster than a PR visa.  However you need to consider the costs if you don't ultimately get PR, because the risk certainly exists that you won't.  How much will the employer pay towards relocation expenses to Australia and return?  Can you afford to wear all those expenses yourself?

 

 

 

Ahh thanks Marisa 

Yes I think I understood it wrong then. I thought even if I was the main applicant his age would not allow him one. 

I have only spoken in email so far, all of these questions such as relocation fees, and what is covered I haven't asked yet. I just thought I'd do some research into pros and cons before the call xx

Also my added factor is that my husband is 43 this year, which is very close to the age where he won't get PR. 

So unless we can start application as soon as we're in Oz I think the safer option would be to just go for the state nominated option with PR than sponsor anyway 

I think I will, these are questions I am going to ask on the phonecall next month.

I need to make sure the kids and my husband are included on my visa.

Why would you prefer a PR just because of the kids? Is it just for that security or is there something else?

Yes we're going for WA.

Really good news for the new year. 

Must be really disheartening just waiting. Fingers crossed you get some good news too

Yes it did, My ApHRA registration had a slight hiccup, with documents being signed but they said once I have them they will re activate my account and I don't have to start the process again. 

So as soon as the portal opens in Jan for me to start skills ax I can. 

Though the recruitment company know this and still want to talk to me

Hey everyone hope you all had a great Christmas. 

I am in the process of applying for my state nominated visa, which gives us PR and more freedom as to where I work and live, as well as access to medical care etc.

However I have also been contacted by a nursing recruitment company who want to offer sponsorship. So I know with sponsored visa I have to stay in that state for 2 years, it's not PR and PR isn't garunteed either, but I'm guessing the process is quicker. 

Interested to hear from people who have been successful in going sponsored visa and then doing PR.

How did you find the process?

I've heard people say it's more expensive to live without PR how is that?

If you came with a partner were they able to find work or was it more difficult without PR?

Anything else you'd like to share please do.

Many thanks

And happy new year

Oh yes I will have, I have my English test next week

19 minutes ago, Pooja Negi said:

Hello @TheBs

My points got updated from 85 to 90 because I completed 5 years of experience in home country in the meantime and the skillselect updated my points automatically to 90.
 

Are you offshore or onshore atm?

Hmmm thank you, I'm not sure I can get that extra 5 points from anywhere I've done 8+ yrs already.

Nevermind I'll have to wait it out. Thanks 

22 minutes ago, Pooja Negi said:

I'm a nurse and at the time of submitting my first EOI with 85 points, I waited for around 7 months before my points got updated to 90 and then within 10 days of updated points, I got my invitation for 190 from VIC

Thanks Pooja 

Why did your points get updated to 90? I have 85 points at the moment

Hi so I completed my nurse training as a Diploma 14yrs ago and have done my BSC In Specialist Community Public Health Nursing.

So at the moment I'm stream B on APHRA. If they decide I'm still stream B after doing the portfolio section I have to do the multiple choice question exam 

Anyone done this and can give an idea what it entails? 

Thanks

My goodness! 

So if I'm reading that right the EOI time potentially could only be a month in some cases.

Then once invited to apply for visa you get 60days to do so, that process though is what the immi site is saying could be anywhere between 5 and 20 months 

Hey, 

Can anyone give me an average of the length of time you've waited between submitting you EOI and being invited to apply for a visa?

Particularly any nurses. I realise covid is slowing things down too. So just after an average length of time. Aus immigration site is saying anywhere from 5-20months.

Thanks in advance

10 minutes ago, Quoll said:

You're likely to have the most trouble with your daughter tbh. Especially if she is close to her grandparents. Both my now adult sons, having partnered with girls from large local extended families, have said that their only regret is that they grew up isolated from wider family even though we did our best to maintain those links and having my parents visit for long periods. If either your parents or your daughter are enmeshed in each others lives it is going to be hard for all. If you're essentially independent already it will be much easier. 

My daughter actually is really excited about it, i'd say my mum is more attached than she is.

It's a difficult relationship to explain but basically it's going to cause trouble and I suppose I'm having a touch of cold feet as to whether I really want to stir that nest 

But then that would be the easy way out