thediggler

I'd ask the garage to confirm the part numbers they are waiting for and then contact a local BMW dealer to see whether there is a stock shortage. Your friendly mechanic may be trying to pull the wool over your eyes (or not perhaps if BMW confirm the parts are indeed out of stock). Might also be worth checking ebay (Oz and UK) in the future to see whether you can source any used or copy parts which might save you a fortune on any future repairs, even with the shipping costs!

I think proximity to the city is a big thing for Melbourne, life is very much centred around the city which is surprising to say how far it sprawls.

 

Places like frankston and dandenong, whilst offering some employment opportunities, don't seem to have taken any focus from the CBD itself - which I find a bit strange. To have so many people spread over such a large area focused around one city seems strange to me, maybe that's just coz I'm from England and pretty much wherever you are in the country you could expect to have three or four decent size cities around you!

Hey Shane, sent you a private message in response to yours about items for sale in Melbourne but not sure it got through, I've had problems with sending messages on PIO in the past. If it didn't arrive, drop me another message with your mobile number and i'll give you a call mate. Cheers, Neil

As I posted previously, I don't feel comfortable with all and sundry knowing where I live and I'm pretty sure if anyone was slightly interested they would invest the 2 seconds of their time in sending me a PM and asking about the house and which area etc......

Good luck with that then

Hey, just as a few suggestions... In your title, change it to something like "House for sale - North West UK" then people who may be interested in a house over here will be more likely to look at this thread, rather than one saying "House for sale" as that could be anywhere in the World realistically. It also might be worth putting a general location in. Manchester, Blackpool, Wigan.. you get the hint, and maybe a picture or two of the building, garden and inside without disclosing the exact location and whereabouts.

 

Good luck selling it and with your move to Tasmania.

Yeah, agree with this. The North West is quite a big place, you might as well be putting an advert on here saying "House for sale, somewhere in Melbourne offers invited!!" How about including a link to the website where it's advertised for sale such as on Rightmove? Quoting the selling price also helps.........

We are travelling back home to Adelaide later this year and while we are still waiting for the visa approval to come through (7 1/2 months - not that I am counting or anything :wink:) I am doing some investigating in relation to flights and prices and the best airports when you are travelling with kids.

 

My partner and I have both agreed that we dont want to do the land and dash stopovers so we will be having a few hours (probably ranging from 4 to 6 hours at the most) in the transit airport.

 

We have travelled through Changi (Singapore) a few times and the last time we did it with our daughter when she was 8 months old. It was adequate for what we needed at the time (given she wasnt that active and slept in the complimentary buggy for most of the time) so we didnt do much in the way of exploring to see what else was on offer. This time, however will be different as we will have two kids - our daughter will be almost 3 and our son will be around 20 months at the time of travelling (around early Sept).

 

I guess I am after some advice from people who have travelled with young kids of a similar age and what airport they thought had good child friendly areas (complimentary buggies available?), good changing facilities and was good for keeping the kids entertained for a few hours to give mum and dad some peace and quiet but also to wear them out running around before doing the final leg of our journey.

 

I have looked at flights which take us through Changi, Kuala Lumpur (Malaysia) or Dubai. Any recommendations/suggestions or horror stories of places we should definitely go to or avoid?

 

Cheers

Amanda

I know it's not on your list but avoid Abu Dhabi if it's suggested to you, it's normally packed and not what you would expect for such a wealthy city. Also crap for kids.

 

I've got those too mate, came form Chesterfield and my wife was from Gee Cross near Hyde. We ended up living in Gee Cross for a few years before we emigrated. Either me or her used to travel over the snake pass just about every weekend for years when we were courting (does that sound old fashioned to you:laugh:), loved that drive. Tour de France should be good at the start this year as they go over there the first couple of days.

 

You must have hit a bad year for the flies mate, they aren't like that all the time and very rarely at the beach, the sea breeze blows them away:wink:. It is a lot worse in land though. If you want a bit of different scenery in WA there's always the drive South mate. Esperance is a mere 7 hours away with lots of places you could stay in between. Get out of town and set the cruise control to 110km/hr and relax.

Hehe!! Snake pass is an awesome drive, as long as there's no snow!!

I can relate to your situation actually. I met my wife in Kavos (whoohoooo!) back in 2002, she lived in Hull at the time and I lived in Cheadle near Stockport. She used to get the train into Manchester every weekend for about 18 months before she finally agreed to move in with me, my hard work eventually paid off!

Maybe it was just a bad time of year for us when we visited Perth. Having said that, you should be wary of any city that has its own fly museum (is that still there?!).

Yeah, a 7 hour drive doesn't sound that appealing when you've got two young girls in the back singing Disney Frozen songs all the bloody way.

"Let it goooo, let it goooooo can't hold it back anymoreeeeeeAAAAAAGGGGHGGHGHGHGGHGH!!!" (Any parents with kids aged 10 or under will no doubt relate to this).

Have you considered Perth mate? I see the Digglers comments above about Perth being too isolated and I've never got why people put that. Every major City in AUs is isolated and tbh how many times do you travel far from where you live, no matter where that is?

 

 

Yeah, I understand what you're saying @Paul1Perth. I think it's just the fact that you're thousands of miles away from any other major city unlike other places in Australia. It's not like in the UK where you can travel from say Liverpool to Manchester, and then onto Leeds all within the space of about 2 hours whilst experiencing different scenery and attractions along the way. I'm not saying that's possible in Victoria but at least you can drive to say Adelaide or Sydney if you wanted to (personally I wouldn't dream of it with my two kids, they'd have me in tears after 2 hours!).

 

Aside from the location, the flies also got on my nerves in Perth when I was there a few years back and I don't think I could put up with the heat if i'm honest. I one of those sad

bar-stuards who likes a bit of wind and rain now and again, must be my Pennine roots shining through!!

 

Each to their own I guess but I suppose that's what makes the world go round. Good to hear you're enjoying yourself mate!

Thanks for the replies.

@thediggler

 

Sorry to hear your heading back - did you considered anywhere else in Oz before deciding or was enough enough?!?

 

For us it's I think it's just not worked out as we'd have hoped, don't get me wrong I know the grass isn't always greener and same sh!t different place, etc. but we were hoping for a more relaxed lifestyle and attitude to life generally. At the minute we're doubting whether Melbourne is able to offer what we're looking for.

 

It would be awesome to have more sun, spend more time at the beach, surf (the water around Melbourne is freezing, even in summer), basically work to live and not live to work!!

 

I work in the city and we live in the burbs, in some respects it's good but at the minute is seems all I do is work and then spend the weekends wishing it was sunny - not too dissimilar to the UK.

 

We read that Melbourne is very European and I'd def agree, maybe we should have taken more notice!! We came here to experience the Aussie way!!

 

Has anybody moved from Melbourne to Brisbane and if so can you offer any advice / comparisons???

Mate, I've been to pretty much every major city in Australia (aside from Alice Springs and Darwin) and Melbourne is the only place I feel we could have any chance of settling. Brisbane was too humid for us, Perth is too isolated, Sydney is a bit harsh and expensive and Adelaide is too quiet (again, this is just my opinion!). I think the longer we stay here the harder it would be, particularly for my girls, to integrate back into the lifestyle we had back home. It would also be more difficult to get a mortgage and even perhaps find work so I don't see any benefit in staying here any longer than what we need to now.

I think in regards lifestyle, the problem I've found with Melbourne or perhaps Victoria is that it's like living in a small country, and if you want to go to another state you might as well be travelling from England to say somewhere like Spain or Italy, such is the size of the country. That can be quite frustrating when you've already exhausted pretty much everything you can do with kids in Melbourne (i.e. we've been to all the parks, zoos, museums, farms, etc). There was definitely more to keep us entertained back home and every weekend feels like Groundhog Day here now because we're doing the same things over and over again. Maybe some of that is because my youngest girl is only 2 years old so we can't exactly do as much as say a family with older kids.

Personally, I think once you've got past the sea, sun and sand, Melbourne doesn't offer us anything over the lifestyle we had in the UK, less in fact hence why we're returning home. And I know this will sound like i'm a whinging pom (maybe I am!) but to be honest I got bored of all the sunshine in the summer and was pining for some cold weather come March! Too much of a good thing can put you off it, and that's how I felt about the heat over Christmas.

Another issue for us is throwing money down the drain by renting over here, $2,300 a month for a weatherboard shack that's about 50 years old, riddled with ants and freezing in the winter. I could get a lovely 4-5 bed newish detached home for that price back home!

So in summary, I've been here, got the t-shirt and now can't wait to get home. There's a few mates waiting for me at the bar with a pint at the ready..........!!

I can relate to most of that. I've been here in Melbourne for coming up to a year now and am flying back to the UK with my wife and two young girls 3 weeks from today.

Aside from a bit of rain over the past few weeks I think the weather has been pretty good since we've been here. Obviously, the 40+ heat in January was a killer but we managed to get through it unscathed! I come from quite a wet part of the UK though so perhaps my opinion will be different from yours! Agree totally regarding the housing though, I've actually felt warmer outside sometimes and can't wait to get back into a brick built house with proper insulation and CARPETS!!! Oh how I've missed carpets!!

I managed to get a job lined up before I came so haven't had to go through the rigmarole of sending out my CV and attending interviews. It was one of the conditions my wife and I agreed before we came out here, as in my opinion it can be financial suicide migrating to Australia without having any work lined up first. Sky high rental prices mean money can drain from your bank account like water through your hands.

We've been to the beach a few times but I'd swap it tomorrow for one of Britain's many national parks. We were members of the National Trust back home and used to enjoy driving out at the weekend to some of the various trust locations and spend time walking round forests or nature reserves with the girls. One thing I will miss however is the great children's parks they have here, they're dotted all over the place and it's clear Australia invests more in kids play facilities compared with the UK. There's also less vandalism (aside from the bloody graffiti) which has been refreshing.

With regards the people, I can pretty much take or leave Australians the same way I could with folks back in the UK. Customer service is pretty bad here and the majority of call centre workers and shop assistants I've had to speak to come across either bored or sarcastic. It's p*ssed me off quite a bit to be honest although I tend to give as good as I get!

Commuting hasn't been a problem for me as I live in Bayside and drive down Beach Rd to work in South Melbourne, about a 25 min drive each day. I think i'm fortunate to be honest as the prospect of travelling to work every day by train would have got on my nerves quickly.

Moneywise, we've actually done a lot better than we expected and are looking at going home with around $20,000 more than we came with. This is due to us being careful with money and not going mad buying cars, etc when we first got here. We have friends who came here with no jobs, limited funds and one of the first things they did when they landed was to spend $15,000 on a huge 4x4 which they clearly don't need. We managed to get two cars for several thousand dollars less than that and have been pretty lucky that nothing drastic has gone wrong with them since we've been here. It's all about living to your means really. If you can't be seen dead in anything less than a BMW or huge Chelsea tractor then that's cool, but you're gonna pay the price for it!

I'm also careful when I go shopping and took over duties from my wife who was spending (in my opinion) far too much when she went out to Coles each week. An average weeks shopping probably costs somewhere between $200 and $250 (although on some occasions I've managed it for around $150 actually) which is comparable with what we were spending back home so I can't complain really. I am a tight git though and always go for the special deals on offer rather than just put any old crap in my trolley!

Overall, whilst the experience has definitely been a testing one for us, it has brought us together more as a family and I think we'll be more appreciative of things we took for granted when we get back home. I know some people will disagree with my comments and have their own opinions, but as I've said before on another post, Australia is like Marmite. You'll either love it or hate it, and everyone's experience will differ depending on the type of lifestyle they left in the UK.

For us, we were happier and generally better off back home and we realise now what matters most to us. I wouldn't want to go back and change anything we've done even if I could, as in my opinion life is for living and you'll never know what could have been unless you experience things for yourself.

The only real worry I have now is finding work back home and getting my eldest girl settled into school, although i'm hoping those things will sort themselves out over the next couple of months.

Anyway, I enjoyed reading your post. Good luck for the future and hope it all works out for you, whatever you decide to do in the future.

I think you could have packed it tighter......:cool:

If anyone is after a reliable, clean and solid car then take a look at my Saab on Gumtree below and drop me a message. I'd rather it go to a good home than have to flog it to some dodgy second hand car dealership at the last minute. Cheers all.

http://www.gumtree.com.au/m-my-ad.html?adId=1049181311

Never mind, argue away.......

I think this thread has lost its direction somewhat. Do we really need anymore posts arguing the ethics of getting into debt?

Just curious, I'm pure as the driven snow me (:cute:) but has anyone left debt in Australia and returned to the UK? Don't have debt, but am interested to hear if the rules are the same etc. Cheers!

How DAAARRREEEE you even suggest such a thing on here, bow your head in shame and stand in the corner whilst you wait to be reprimanded.................good question though!

I'll stick my neck out here and say I agree with Pablo. Put yourself first and worry about the bank later (if at all), they're unlikely to give a monkeys about your situation anyway so i'd stick them bottom of the priority list.

Ahhhhhhhh, didn't spot that. Our bills are sky high at around $600 per quarter, I think it's because we're in an old weatherboard house and have a water tank in the loft that heats overnight which must be costing us a fortune in electricity. It sounds like a bloody Lancaster Bomber coming in to land at 5am in the morning, Landlord won't do bugger all about it :realmad:

Good tool that, although $50 per month for Electricity seems a bit on the low side.

Sometimes you do things so stupid, like leaving Australia on a whim. Getting back to UK and thinking to yourself, why the hell did I do that ?

Something i've realised from reading people's comments on this forum is that finding true happiness and being comfortable in your surroundings is all a matter of opinion. I'm returning to the UK in 6 weeks and personally I can't wait to get home. This is based on my own experience of Australia compared with the lifestyle I had in the UK. I don't expect everyone else to share this opinion, because each of us will have our own experience of Oz and will have course also travelled from different parts of the UK to get here.

I think people need to bear this in mind when they post questions asking other PIO members whether they should take the plunge and move to Australia. They might as well be asking whether people like Marmite or not and will never really know how things will pan out until they try it themselves.

Yes mate, new people always welcome. I've sent you a message on FB.

Did you send it to the right Neil Russell??? My cover photo has me and the rest of my clan on it.

We're starting up a game of 7 a side this Friday, May 15th @Kingston Heath, Cheltenham.

 

Everyone welcome to come along.

 

Age ranges from 25-50.

 

A few of us will be going for a pint afterwards in the RSL next door if you fancy it.

I fancy some of that Banksy if the offer's still on the table? I'm in Sandringham so only 5 mins down the road. I'm on Facebook, search for me under Neil Russell.

Howdy all. Due to fly home to the UK in 8 weeks and in the process of sorting out what we're taking with us and what we're selling. I've listed some items we're selling below should anyone be interested (i.e. new arrivals or current residents)....

His and hers cars (2001 Black VW Golf Generation 1.6 Manual and 2002 Saab 9-5 2.3 Turbo Auto, both in excellent condition with low miles)

Huge white double door ikea wardrobes

Fisher Paykel Fridge Freezer

LG Washing Machine

Westinghouse Tumble Dryer

Childs cot

Various fans, portable radiators, kitchen appliances, etc.

Petrol lawnmower and various garden tools

Massive trampoline

Childs garden play apparatus

Basic double bed

We also have other items such as a twin sofa, 55" 3D HD TV, sideboard with matching TV unit, etc which we may consider selling if the price is right. Could perhaps do a deal as a job lot for someone who is due to arrive in the country soon as doesn't want the hassle of spending weeks sourcing household items from various shops.

Drop me a message if interested.

Cheers, Neil

This should help...

http://www.paycalculator.com.au/

Points accrued in Australia stay in Australia, they can't be transferred to your British license

TrueBlue Migration are pretty good

I am very well aware of employment law. But why would it interfere with contractual arrangements between employers and employees regarding relocation costs. The answer is there is no reason why it should. You are getting mixed up with laws around 457 visas and employers trying to recover those costs.

Jesus Christ, you try offering some helpful advice and get shot down in flames!

The point I was making was that it is better to seek proper advice on the matter, to be certain, rather than accept the opinions of people on PIO as gospel. I've been given advice myself on here in the past and found it to be far from accurate.

Whether it be right or wrong, I have been told by my own line manager than the company I work for is no longer able to enforce repayment of the relocation costs they paid to me should I decide to leave within 2 years. If that turns out to be a load of cobblers, then obviously i'll be taking the issue up with my employer.

However, my suggestion for others in a similar situation would still be to seek proper advice rather than assume the opinions of those given on PIO are 100% accurate.