Wow, you have bought me to tears. I am not a bad person and I know that, Just need my wife to see it! My kids and wife are everything to me. I look around my home and we have lots of photos of our family everywhere, all those good memories. I know those memories won't ever dissappear but I had/have dreams for more memories to be created as a family unit.
Unfortunately I think my wife made a rash desision in saying she hasn't loved me for 2 years. Not sure why but I think she is now scared to delve down and find what has caused that. I truly beleive we can work out any problems and really think it selfish of her not to at least confront the problems and just shut the door on 12 years, two kids, alll those memories etc....
She maybe feeling that now she has told all her family / friends that it is too late to change her mind.
Anyway 3 days ago I sent her a message which simply said
"Hi,
Just wanted to let you know that I love you very much and am
hear for you when you feel ready to talk"
Very hard for me not knowing what is running through her mind.
Andrew